ANSWERS: 18
  • Yes, this is abuse. It is not right for him to shove you or break things under any circumstances. Please get away from this guy ASAP if you can. National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233
  • Get out of there before he tries to hit your head off the balcony with the bat. Really, get out!
  • that just sounds horrible, get away from him. break all ties you have to him, he sounds really dangerous and f*cked up. that is most definitely abuse, not a doubt in my mind, you need to leave. good luck to you.
  • This is absolutley abuse and absolutely unacceptable. You are in danger if it escalates any further. Leave this person now. And if you think leaving is dangerous, take the advice of another poster and call the National Domestic Violence hotline and they can help you with the process. So can a victim's advocate with your local police station. Do not stand for this. Do not accept it. None of it is your fault and you need to protect yourself. Good luck.
  • You need to pack up and get out of there immediately! Go to your parents or a relative or a friends home...or go to the police and they will get you in touch with a Domestic Violence shelter that will help you get on your feet if you need them. Just get out! He is totally abusive and the next time he may just use that bat on you and then it will be too late.
  • uhhh yea thats abuse. get outa there
  • does it seem like the actions of a normal, well balanced, healhy person to you? Why are you still there - do you enjoy watching him smash your things to bits. I cannot think why anybody in their right mind would not be running a mile as fast as possible in the opposite direction from a guy like this. What are you thinking? Use your brain for godsake before he smashes his bat into the side of your hide and you end up like a cabbage. Go get your coat, get your keys and go out the door and go today, right now - afterall, he's smnashed up everything you own so your coat and keys are all you probably have left. If you stay then quite honestly, you are completely stupid.
  • ok I will make this very easy ....yes yes yes YES!!! it is abuse and the next target will be you and your head meeting the swinging bat ...get out..get out...GET OUT NOW !!!!!, even if you have to go to a womans shelter ..its better than a bloody wooden box
  • Yes, it most certainly IS abuse and you should seriously run as fast and far as your feet will carry you away from this potentially lethal situation. Clearly this person has an anger management problem. Get some help and for crying out loud, talk to someone about getting some help with your lack of self esteem. Do you think anyone deserves to be treated so shabbily?
  • This is abuse and intimidation. Get away from this situation as soon as you can.
  • Yes very much so! You need to leave his inconsiderate, low self esteem having good for nothing ass as fast as you can. Easier said than done though... He wants you to fear him so that he has more control over you. You are nothing more than a "belonging" to him that is to do as he says and nothing more. The longer you stay the more you will believe that he is only doing what he does to "help" you. Make friends, BIG tough ones that could beat his ass if you ever need them to. Most of all - You have to know that what he is doing is because HE is his problem NOT you!
  • Quickly. Get the hell out of there!This man/boy is dangerous and things will only get worse. Soon he'll be using that bat on you. GET OUT NOW!
  • this is serious and very abusive whenever you cannot speak your mind you are in the company of someone who thinnks they are supreme over you like you are a child or something baseball bat need to meet policeman restaining order and no more miss nice guy show him you have strength but make sure you are careful do not even let this fool hear you or see you calling 911 sometimes you may have to go to the store or whatever it takes get away love yourself enough to know you deserve happiness and respect love don't hurt honey best wishes
  • its not just abuse - destroying someone else's stuff is against the law and he can be arrested for that too
  • Yes it is. Get out of there before he starts using the bat on YOU. Seriously! Either that, or get him into Anger Management IMMEDIATELY. If he refuses to go, then you get out of that house.
  • yes. he likes to intimidate you. thats what he uses for control. and he has that macho man personalit.
  • What this idiot is doing is ABUSE to the max .... Get out of this situation ASAP as this type of abuse ends with worse physical abuse and then MANY times ... DEATH .... This guy is obviously a self centered jerk who needs to be taken out and horsewhipped for touching you like that .... SAVE Yourself NOW and get rid of him .... kick his no good azz to the curb ... +5
  • Yes. I would pack up and get the hell out and never look back.

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