Consult your local state laws and apply for divorce.

You contact an attorney and file for a divorce. Simple.

What are any of us to do? You need to go get the divorce yourself. Go file for one...and thank your lucky stars he is out of your life.

October i openly asked for a divorce. You stopped me from taking my clothes or leaving the house. Your brother and sister TOLD you to let me go. You ignored me, your friends and your family to keep me. Yeah, i left at the first chance i saw when you weren't home. I know you for 13 years Nina, i knew the chances of making it out was close to none if you were in the house. You assumed i'm with another woman. I'm not, and won't be until i'm 100% sure we're divorced. I left you once, this is the second and LAST time i'm leaving you. You won't convince me to get back together again. I'm using a local library to go online since i left my laptop's power supply back at your house. I had no idea you were in the hospital until i saw this post. Sorry to hear it, i really am. However i've known you for 13 years and know what you're capable of. I'm NOT going anywhere near you until a divorce is final. As some helpful members here stated, you don't need me (nor my location which currently lacks and address anyways, cause 3 trees, grass and bushes has no address where I'm at) to file and get a divorce. Go talk to a lawyer, file for divorce. It's not as if i'm going to show up in court and fight it.

Please grow up and be civil You left the tent and sleeping bag! Word travels fast I know who your with and were you are. Have I bothered you? I wouldn't waste my time!In October you never asked for a Divorce actually I caught you cheating on the computer with the woman or young lady or with now and you freaked out and wanted to leave I said lets go to the lawyer and see about a Divorce and after we spoke a few hours YOU SAID lets try and see if we can work things out. I wanted to go to a lawyer before you left so I knew it would be over and I would have closure. You make me sound terrible but I don't think anyone would do the things I did for you and I did them because I Loved you.Now I know you did them for a reason because like you said I was the wrong woman and if so why would anyone in there right mind stay with someone for 11 years if they felt she was the wrong woman but thats because you wanted something and it wasn't Love.I CAN"T BELIEVE A WORD THAT YOU SAY YOU HAVE HURT TOO MANY PEOPLE THIS TIME I AM DONE. Honestly after 13 years I can't be like you, even though you used me to try and get p----- and never loved me but I do still care about you My Love was real. I am not a bluffer like you Actions speak louder than words and besides I read all your posts.You lied to the kids what can I keep saying when they ask for you? but now I am done. it wasn't twice It was 3 times. You need to find yourself grow up and be a man. Find Happiness its in you!! It's a shame I was so blind. Don't Worry I would Never Convince you to Come Back. Don't Be the victim and blame except RESPONSIBLITIES.There are Three sides to a story.your looking for pity like you always did.BE A MAN !!Good Luck LUIS (ANDRE)

Just like everyone else does. Go hire an atty and divorce the sucker!