Wow this is a very common question, especially by women after that "sex in the city" episode. There is a lot of information about it now. Google it and read. But here is a short overview and I talk from experience. I have learned to make women ejaculate often referred as squirting. It is considered the most intense of female orgasms. It takes a lot of muscle spasm from certain parts of a women body. There is a gland called the Skene's glad named after it's founder. It is similar to the male prostrate and does produce a fluid similar to the fluid that carries male sperm cells. It's near the bladder. During the process it feels like the women is going to urinate during orgasm. Most women hold this back when they feel it for fear that they are going to urinate. In most cases that is not the case, they are actually holding back the ejaculatory process, not urination. The urethra is made of erectile cells similar to a man's penis and actually do become stimulated in a similar way. Stimulation of the so called G spot is part of the process. By stimulating the G spot it also stimulates the erectile tissue and Skene's glad. To take it a step further, massaging of certain areas directly and indirectly stimulate the gland and tissue and will will increase the intensity of this feeling. Although not all women are the same and you have to be totally relaxed and open to this for it to happen most of the time. It takes a little experimentation and time. It's common for women to say oh that's the spot during intercourse and there are places inside the vagina that are more sensitive, those places could be connected to this process. That "Place" that he hits might be the Skene's gland or other tissue involved with this process. That feeling is also something men get too when a more experienced lover massages the area behind a man's testicles while she is pleasuring him. It does produce a very pleasurable feeling and heightens the excitement and orgasm. Gay men are said to enjoy receiving anal intercourse because of the direct stimulation of the prostate gland. But when a women gets that feeling she has to let go. It might be urine the first time until the body knows what it's doing. But usually it's a warm clear watery fluid that is not a lubrication and actually washes that away. Sometimes it's not totally clear and sometimes it may contain some urine. It's a very natural thing but you must be hydrated. In other words drink water awhile before sex. Also make sure your bladder is empty before sex to insure this is definitely ejaculation. Some people don't believe in it, I have been with many woman who do this. Some really squirt in long streams and some just kind of flow in gushes.

WHY THE MYSTERY? Fluid can be collected from those women who claim to squirt. This can be tested in University Medical School Pathology Laboratory. I have not found such scientific study reported so far. If such a study is done, speculation would end. It is unfortunate, but true that female sexual response (and then female sexual dysfunction) is not studied well enough to give conclusive findings. Female Sexual Response is more intriguing because women find sexual satisfaction even without having orgasm. Social scientists Marian Koster and Lisa Price of Wageningen University in the Netherlands report: "The Rwandan women and men we interviewed (only 11 women and 2 men) were clear in their opinion that all Rwandan women are able to ejaculate, the ejaculation being different from the mere squirting of urine," The labia minora is stretched by girls in Rwanda. Koster says. "Elongated labia are seen as crucial in this respect." WHY THE QUESTION? If squirting was a fact there would not be question about it, just as there would not be question about human beings having two eyes. WHY THE CONFUSION? In hardcore pornography films, squirting is depicted vividly. This should be considered as true as Sylvester Stallone jumping from the 19th floor of a high rise building, landing safely on the ground and fighting enemy bare handed. Regards, Dr. Ashok Koparday Consultant in Sexual Medicine mydoctortells.com