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by Summer on January 2nd, 2008

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A guy I've been on 3 dates with & meet on an online dating site said he goes on that site just to read my messages. Does this mean that he want's a relationship with me? I want to tell him the same thing. What would I be really saying by saying that?

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  • by Jenny on January 3rd, 2008

    Jenny

    Let's see...3 dates. You don't elaborate here, and I'm guessing it is some significant information that you have left out...so let's look for other clues.
    3 dates and he goes online to read your messages...hmm...it would be quite a leap to try to devine his intentions regarding a "relationship" from this snippet of intel.
    On the other hand, you HAVE had 3 dates, and he makes a special trip to the website just to read your messages...I'd say you ARE having a relationship...perhaps a very new relationship...or a pre-relationship with relationship overtones...My thoughts?
    It looks good from here. He sounds like he wants hear from you, and you clearly have plans for him.
    You know...you don't have to wait until he makes some sort of declaration to let him know that you'd like to take it to the next llevel. My goodness! It's 2008 GF...Set the pace, cut to the chase, then state your case! The worst that could happen is that you would find out what he's really thinking before he does, and you end up saving both of you a lot of time.
    You can do this.
    JS

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  • by dancer on July 11th, 2009

    dancer

    I am more suspicious. What else is he reading on the dating site? He could always print your correspondence out so he can read it much easier. I think he's keeping his options open. I hope not for your sake.

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