What do you think about child parenting, should we more punctual or Disciplined and let them do what they want?
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Michel
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Disciplined is the key imo
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Personally, I am a 17 years old and I have seen my friends at school who didn't get disciplined as a child. A lot of them are a HUGE MESS attitude wise. I have an exceptionally wonderful attitude for someone of my age. The reason that I do is because my parents were not afraid to discipline me to help correct my behaviour, but most of all my entire attitude. If they allowed me to do whatever I wanted all the time, the results would probably have been far different. :)
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Children need discipline and children need love and attention. The more love and attention you give them, the less discipline is needed as time passes. One has to discipline a child out of love to prevent them from getting into trouble later in life. I'm not saying to hurt the child of course. It is always important that the child understand why they are being punished.
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i think its fifty fifty yew gotta let them breathe so be leaniant but when something "bad" is done sit down rather than shout and ask why they did it and if they have learnt from it and good behaviour is to be rewarded like family days out and remember that encouragement is crucial!!!
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I don't think the child should be in charge of the parenting, I believe the parent should. However, if the child IS a parent then hopefully the child's parent (the child who is also a parent) should be parenting the child (the child who is not a parent) if at all possible.
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Children need guidance, love and respect from their parents.
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Carrot and stick in the right measure. Children need rules as when no rules are applied they go wrong. Parents who constantly change the boundries eventually end up with problem kids
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Children will be children, and they need good loving parental guidance,... you know the old saying,... this is going to hurt me more than it will you.
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DISCIPLIN is very important! im 13 and hate it but where would i be if i wosent punished for doing things wrong??? i mean sometime my parents wonder if any of it got through to me, but o well. just make sure you pay attention to them when they do things well, as kids can be very insicure, and also dont punish in anger. if u get what i mean. dont hurt the kid because you are angery but do somthing like deny them somthing and do it after u hav carmed down! as hurt as you are mabey send them to their room istead so u hav time to carm down. sorry if i am telling u somthing u already know but my dad had depression and when i was 9-11 could be very violent. not so much towards me but somtimes and all it did was make me terrified of him! (now we get on well by the way he was diognoed and got medication!)
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Being consistent is the key to raising kids. If you tell them they can't go outside until their room is picked up then stick with it every day or they won't take you serious.
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Do what you can to ensure they have an understanding of what is right and a desire to do what is right ... then just stimulate their intelligence and wisdom and let them begin to face the world a bit at a time untill they can handle it alone ...
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