ANSWERS: 6
  • Leave it be. If this behavior becomes consistant, I would ask him what's up.
  • It's only one day. Maybe he's busy, or sick, or computer crashed..
  • Leave it alone and wait for him to contact you, let him take the initiative. You know what they say, let it go, if it comes back, then it was meant to be. If not, your probably better off.
  • No offense, but your ex is not a robot. Sending him an IM doesn't mean he is going to respond right away. He might not even be at the computer. Sometimes people just leave their IM on and don't check it until later because they are busy. Let him get back to you on his own time.
  • IM's, cell phones, emails, texts, blah. There are so many ways to contact someone these days. It's a lot of pressure to always be "contactable". Let it be. There's nothing worse than those nervous nellies who have to have someone respond right away or they think something is wrong. Let him be his own person. If he doesn't want to talk to you for whatever stupid reason but won't tell you, f*ck him - you deserve better anyway.
  • Some of them like to be chased. Don't run after then. My own ex is a very abusive and manipulative human being. If yours is the type he will do the push and pull game till you get sick of him. He don't reply, leave it to that see what happens.

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