I guess it would be nice to have one. Or one at some point. You'll have to learn the times to be submissive and the times not to be. Just don't be criticle, meticulous and defensive. Allow him to approach you. I've forgotten what it's like other than that.

yes men love that but dont be like that all the time guys want a woman who can do things for themselfs too, 2+

The important thing here is not to find out what most men like, but what your boyfriend like. And, of course, you should also take into account what *you* like. Why don't you just ask him? To answer your question, it could be that many men are still educated with patriarchal values, and would rather play a dominant role in a relationship. But probably not extremely dominant. It also depends from the country or the region where you live.

Some men do some men don't they are all different. But you should not change who you are to get a guy to like you. In the end he is liking someone who isn't the real you and you will feel upset because you will not be true to yourself. Be who you are and find a guy who loves you for that.

I would say that completely submissive women would be a bit boring, personally. If I were a man, I would like a woman who is secure with herself and who would stand as an equal with me. I am definitely not a submissive woman. ;)

I used to think that men preferred submissive women. The thing is...no matter what you have to be who you are! So it doesn't really matter.

I would assume so yes, its natural human nature for women to submit to men, however, i think that a woman has to have the right balance between just submitting and making him work for it too!lol :)

no! a man who is confident likes a woman who is assured of herself and can do without him, that in fact makes the CHACE last into the relationship. He knows that if he left her she would be JUST FINE.

Arguing, having your own opinion and differing is what keeps the relationship alive. Besides, make up sex is always fun. Save the submission for the bedroom but not during the day. Most guys like to know how their doing in life, making decisions, and that includes hearing it from their partners, either good or bad feedback.

I am looking for some direction. It has only occurred to me a few days ago that my wife is a natural submissive. We have had off-and-on relationship issues for the last several years. I immediately tested my epiphany by initiating a conversation to this effect: "Do you want to please me?" "Yes." "It is 'yes, sir', but I will not punish you for the mistake...as long as you correct it right away." "Yes, sir." "Do you want to guess how I should be pleased? Or would you prefer I tell you?" "Whatever you want." That was Sunday night, the BEST Sunday night. Monday morning, she was up before me and made my favorite breakfast. She even had the timing down to when I normally wake up on Mondays (no gym on Monday). When I began to eat, she asked what I wanted to watch her do while I ate. I told her to straighten and vacuum the library (which I can see from the breakfast nook). She complied immediately and I enjoyed the most fulfilling feeling of absolute power, I felt I could command her to do anything, even something ridiculous or demeaning, though I would not ask her to demean herself...I still felt the warmth of so much authority. When I finished eating, she took my plate and asked what more i wanted. I told her to clean my face with a warm towel. She made the temperature perfectly lukewarm and used gentle, fawning strokes to wipe down my face and neck. Nothing more extravagant that day except that she had obviously waited for me to get home (held late for a Sales Meeting, so it was almost 11pm when she is usually asleep by 9:30pm) before getting herself ready for bed. When I laid down, she laid down and situated herself in the crook of my arm. Tuesday passed without any special attention, or even much conversation. I spent most of Tuesday not selling, but researching submissive/dominant relationships. Yesterday morning (Wednesday), I woke up while she was still sleeping. I got my gym bag ready, but then decided to test her lightly. I made a list of chores I wanted done by the time I got home from to get ready for work - and said so in the note. I also told her to be wearing her wedding dress, which I hadn't even seen in years, but knew she kept in the attic. I was almost knotty in the stomach rolling into the driveway. She had done all I could see from the foyer and was standing at the top of the balustrade in her bright ivory dress. I wanted to run straight up and devour her, but I resisted and used what I had learned to 'not show' my own abandon and instead told her to descend very slowly. She kept her eyes locked intensely on mine for every stair. When she reached me at the bottom stair, she just gazed up at me without saying anything. I told her to turn around and bend down to the stairs. She remained silent and obeyed. I lifted the train of her dress and took her from behind, eventually forcing her down to the stairs. I knew it had to be uncomfortable against the edges of the stairs, but she only moaned until I finished. Today, I am a bit overwhelmed. I feel foolish for not sensing this need in her sooner, and ashamed with myself for losing quite literally YEARS of this incredible new dynamic. Now, I am seeking more info by posting to a few sites and forums that have given me the best info so far. Where can I learn more about the proper care and feeding of life-pets? I don't want to ruin this with bad decisions, I imagine it will take some time to become adept. I do note that it takes incredible attention to her mood and temperament, as she is so silent during these times. I hope to open her up conversationally over time. Any tips for that? She seems to want me to already KNOW what to do and how to do it. Or maybe she thinks I am a natural Master as she appears to be so naturally submissive. It could also be that we already know each other so well that some of this seems so natural or even easy to adjust to. How do I distinguish between what we should discuss and what might break the spell? I am tempted to just take it as I have; I am Master, so I can do no wrong so long as I am attentive to her and tender to her in my instruction. She doesn't seem to want to beabused - physically or emotionally - she is just so EAGER to please me. Are there any groups that have well-intentioned discussion of these matters? I went to a group thing in a nearby GLBT community that was more about subjugating with pain and bindings than with the power of command and confident expectation. I am looking for something with people like myself; where the power comes from caring and being innately authoritative and commanding. I would really appreciate the insight and comments of submissive women/wives. As I stated, I want to care for her in the way she wants to be cared for...as she is so willingly devoted to my happiness and my pleasure. Her Master