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If you love him and your son loves him, then there is hope for this relationship. The thing is, you have become a mother and are nesting, and your man has not. You need marriage counselling immediately (even if you are not married) if this is to succeed.
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He will have to recognize the need for a change within himself before he settles down. If he settles down because you want him to, he'll feel he has the right to resent you and hold it over your head for a life-long guilt trip. I was him at one point. The change HAD to come from within me.
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If he is partying at home....is this the best thing for your son to see.... If you are unhappy...have you talked to him about it He has to want to settle down..you can't force him. I say you need to make the best decision for your son and yourself and follow through.
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