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  • Depends on what state and country you live in. In California, there's a 6-month minimum period between the time you file and the time a divorce can be granted. You do not need to meet face-to-face with your ex, the papers can be served through third parties (process servers, attorneys, etc.). However, if you can get along well enough with your ex to work out a settlement without the attorneys, the whole process will be MUCH cheaper and less contentious. Once the lawyers latch on and decide to fight it out, you can forget about that vacation in Tahiti that you were planning! :)
  • To file doesn't take long. Will you use an attorney or Pro Per?. If property can be worked out before hearing that would move things along. In Cal. Once an order of divorce is entered the divorce is final in six months. As far as service, you cannot serve him your self. The Sheriff will do this, or a friend. You can go to the court clerk in your county and get a pro-Per packet. This will contain your motion to show cause, Financial affidavits, and proof of service. you may qualify for a fee waiver. Fill out papers and file them, you will be given a hearing date, you must then have him served, and file proof of service within a certain amount of time before the hearing. Again, What will delay the process more than anything is contested property and custody issues. Are you in a "no-fault" state?

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