Men, if your girlfriend or wife was an exotic dancer/stripper... how would you feel about her giving patrons "lap dances"?
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Sheriff Raff -Answerhag
ANSWERS: 18
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proud. she is not wavering from her duties.
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I would be fine with it, until I visited her at work. Then the "patrons" wouild misteriously start disspaearing. I know it is her job, and she may like the attention, but I am possisive. After a while I may become used to it but I think I would still try to encourage her to get a new job becasue that is a job for wemon that I personally dont think I would want her to be around. I realize that most dancing establishments are well maintianed, well lighted and honorable, but I dont like the idea that my GF is being paid to dance so close to another man.
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I would feel I married a whore.
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I'd ask her for some ones!
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Well, my current girlfriend IS an exotic dancer that works at a full-nude, full-contact club. It doesn't bother me in the least. People have way too many hang-ups about sex and fidelity. It's me she's coming home to at the end of the shift, not the customer paying her for the illusion of intimacy. Sure, there are challenges to the lifestyle, but until she gives me a reason not to trust her, I'm not going to lose sleep worrying about it.
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Mine was. I didn't know at first, but after four months or so and falling madly in love, she told me. I'm having trouble with it. I know it's my fault, no not fault. Hangup? Insecurity, that's the word. She's faithful, loves me, doesn't dance any more. It still creeps me out.
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I'd love it. We have a pretty kinky relationship and she gives lapdances to my friends when they come over. I find it very flattering other men are looking at my wifes nude body and getting excited. I take it as a compliment. Now if I could only get my buddies to slide her fistfulls of dollar bills........
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I have no issues so long our relationship is transparent. It's her profession and I'ld respect that. If she is good at dancing and has a figure to flaunt I don't mind it.
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Ive been a "patron", to these types of "clubs" for awhile and nowadays i am seeing more occasions of "under-the-table" services appearing. Where men will pay a substantial amount to have the women meet up with them after their dance or after their shift is over to the highest bidder. And that is alot more clubs than people think. High end clubs have high end men coming in them with high end dollars they are willing to spare and the woman always have offers flying at them. Be careful men. this is america, the great whore, give no slack they already get full custody of the kids.
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I discovered one of my coworker's wife was stripping for a living when I saw him sitting in the back. I asked him about it and his reply was that she brings home at least $700 every night. He said he could live with that. As for me...it would all depend upon the depth of our relationship.
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I've dated a stripper and it didn't bother me in the slightest. In fact, it bothered her more than it bothered me.
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I have been an exotic dancer / stripper/ lap dancer for about 1 year now (part time). I dance at a local strip club, as well as bachelor parties etc. my husband of two years comes with me to the club every time, sits and chat to other husbands and boyfreinds who are there, and watches me dance. He also attend every bachelors with me as a chaperone. He says for him, he thouroghly enjoys watching me do this, and seeing the guys reactions to my moves, lap dances etc. Sometimes after a bachelors show, we will all get talking, and we will tell the patrons we are married. The whole thing makes him very proud and he is the envy of every guy who I dance for.
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I have been an exotic dancer / stripper/ lap dancer for about 1 year now (part time). I dabce at a local strip club, and does bachelor parties etc. my husband of two years comes with me to the club every time, sits and chat to other husbands and boyfreinds who are there, and watches me dance. He also attend every bachelors with me as a chaperone. He says for him, he thouroghly enjoys watching me do this, and seeing the guys reactions to my moves, lap dances etc. Sometimes after a bachelors show, we will all get talking, and we will tell the patrons we are married. The whole thing makes him very proud and he is the envy of every guy who I dance for.
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I am married and date a stripper. I have dated strippers for years due to the partnership type but not a good relationship type marriage I have. I have been in all kinds of clubs, even as a teenager and believe me, they are all the same. Although some women don't date or have sex with customers, most of the girls will if you meet their price, which may be money, favors or just the love they don't get from their man (or woman)-- of course, this is mostly after you get to know them. Some are just total whores! I have been jealous of maybe 3 or 4 of the numerous strippers I have dated but overall it always turns out to be for the worst because you or they screw it up. Normally, she is unfaithful because of her past misfortunate occurences or she is just a freak!
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it is part of the job and treated as such there should be no problems
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It hurts like hell if you really like or have fallen in love with the girl but you knew it going in and you feel like a fool! I she won't get her stuff together and stop dancin' then for the most part you will call it quits unless you like sharing your woman.
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My wife is an stripper in a club that allows for full nude full contact lap dances. I don't mind it at all. It is part of her job and the more of these she does the more money she makes. I encourage her to always push the cost private room lap dances which can be very intimate but pay the most.
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My wife, just started dancing last week. I am having issues with even though it was a mutual decesion for her to do it. What is the general rule about her giving numbers to patrons in the club? is it a good idea or not?
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