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by Scarlets walk on December 21st, 2007

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Guys; many women have a rape fantasy, they dont actually want to be raped but thinking about it gets them off. So do guys have a fanatasy to rape women but wouldnt actually do it?

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  • by unknown3 on January 1st, 2008

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    im a guy and have rape fantasies all the time, especially with female friends.

    sometimes when im with an attractive female friend i wonder what would happen if i just threw her down and ripped off her clothes, or if i unzipped my pants and shoved my **** in her mouth. or sometimes when im behind a hot girl i'll imagine reaching under her shirt and squeezing her breasts. sorry to be graphic but its just what i think about. i know it would be horrible and wrong to do these things in real life but i do think about it.

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  • by Anonymous on August 5th, 2009

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    I'm a girl..and I've thought I have many fantasies about having a man force himself on me..but it's usually with guys I know..not just a stranger. I have also imagined myself raping a guy :) One fantasy is I'm somewhere really dark and I wait for a cute guy to walk by, then I grab him and pull him into a dark corner or I throw him down onto a chair, cover his mouth with my hand and tell him to shut up then just climb onto his :) and rape him..after I'm done I just get off, slap him (not really hard) and leave....lol..I'm not sure why I want to slap him..but I do..seems like a nice ending.

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  • by Anonymous on December 12th, 2008

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    Occasionally I will see an absolutely gorgeous girl, and i will think about what it would be like if i could just have my way with her, however raping girls involves hurting her, because a painless rape is impossible, and hearing her scream in pain and kick and bite is a turnoff, I wouldn't even get a hard on. I could molest her though. That's a turnon.

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  • by Evan on September 18th, 2009

    Evan

    Being kidnapped and having my body taken by force by a handsome rogue who knows what he wants and takes it........repeatedly, and he forces me to conceive and bear his child, and then living happily ever after with the rogue and our little one...........I know...so twisted...but I love it! What a turn on!

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  • by sex_me_up on March 20th, 2010

    sex_me_up

    I fantasize about being raped but not bruised. Maybe get slapped around a little bit but not too much violence. The part about it is that I'm still a virgin. Losing my virginity to a hot rapist. Hmmm

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  • by countryfied on June 2nd, 2009

    countryfied

    I came across this searching for why rape turns me on and thought I would share my experience.

    I have never played out a rape fantasy. Things I have done. Tying the girl up, her own underwear in her mouth, spanking, choking, slapping the boobies (hehe). I love the verbal abuse too. Like I will make her ask me for permission to orgasm (girls turn out to like probably more than I, with intense orgasms), or saying things like "I love your c*ck in my mouth". I had one gf who said I could have sex with her while she was asleep, and I did it once when I came home from a club. It turned me on huge, but I never did it again. I think it also kinda scared me she didn't wake up at all..if a girl tried to do me, I'd like to think I'd wake up, I mean I've woken up to a morning BJ, so...

    yes guys do fantasize and no I would never actually rape someone. Strangely enough I would actually vote yes to execute rapists if it was ever proposed.

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  • by marriedman on December 23rd, 2007

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    I have had this fantasy several times before, very detailed, and would love to if the right person and occasion came to pass to be able to act it out without it being "real". Just the idea of being forcefull I guess.

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  • by Anonymous on January 13th, 2010

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    My ex-wife narrowly escaped being raped before I met her - she'd been at a party at a private residence - she went to use the bathroom off one of the bedrooms - three guys were waiting for her when she opened the bathroom door to return to the party and they tried to rape her in the bedroom. She successfully fought them off ( she apparently put up enough resistance they decided to back off - three guys certainly COULD have over-powered her ! ) and she later told me she OFTEN fantasized about there being too MANY guys to fight off and that they had been SUCCESSFUL in raping her. She told me the fantasy really turned her ON when she THOUGHT about it !

    I began to fantasize that I was ONE of the "too MANY guys" and that we WERE successful in raping her ! In MY fantasy she ended up getting INTO being raped and ENJOYING it ! I wouldn't have enjoyed it any other way - I've never been turned on by FORCEFUL sex unless there is SOME indication a "no" REALLY means "yes" !

    My ex-wife and I got into the "swinging" lifestyle some time later and rather than a Gang RAPE we arranged a Gang BANG to fulfill her "fantasy" ! It was MUCH better to have her WILLING - more pleasurable for ALL of us !

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  • by kiwisoccer on January 9th, 2009

    kiwisoccer

    Yeah i do but i wouldn't call it rape more like being very very rough with her but with controlled aggression (ie nothing over the top like no heavy brusing)

    Me personal i think women like the idea of "controlled aggression" more, not rape!

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  • by lickyourclit9 on November 25th, 2008

    lickyourclit9

    Noooo way. I like kinky stuff as much as the next person, but rape is completely 100% wrong and I would never consider it as a fantasy.

    Rape is nonconsensual. Where's the turn-on in that? It turns me on knowing that my girl is getting off, that she's loving what I'm doing to her. Rape fantasies are for really desperate people, no disrespect. And it's dangerous because enough fantasizing can lead to other things.

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  • by a11 on December 21st, 2007

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    I don't mind being the dom in the sex act, but calling it rape would creep me out. Call it being aggressive or being dominant, but it HAS to be consensual and even perceived to be consensual for me to enjoy it.

    I never want to have sex and have need for a "safe" word.

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  • by Anonymous on July 11th, 2009

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    Yes, I do find a "rape fantasy" very hot. I would never actually rape a woman, but the thought of forcing myself on her, whilst she struggles is very hardon inducing.

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  • by Nice Guy In Bay Area on July 3rd, 2009

    Nice Guy In Bay Area

    Yes they do. Did you ever hear of Dr. Jekle and Mr. Hyde? Did you ever see the movie "Extremities"? There is a hormonal desire to spread one's blood line and a desire to do it by force. Plus, the idea that you can just overpower a woman, do it and then leave her is tempting.

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  • by Mr. Profile on December 17th, 2008

    Mr. Profile

    I dont know about rape.. but I wouldnt mind roughing a women up while having sex!!!!

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  • by EL1 2 on December 21st, 2007

    EL1 2

    I certainly don't.

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  • by Speed1962 on November 19th, 2010

    Speed1962

    Not until I met my wife. That is probably why she likes bondage. She can pretend she's being taken by force. And while I would never rape a woman, playing out rape fantasies can be fun.

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  • by herman on July 26th, 2009

    herman

    One time my on again off again lover was ready to kick me out of the house and I knew it. I sat late into the night drinking and watching porn. I decided I was going to get it one last time. I went in the bedroom and took what I wanted. She told me later that that was the best sex we ever had. She did not know she was being raped.

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  • by henryR on July 12th, 2009

    henryR

    NO.... NO

    BUT, I have fantasies about being raped by another man.... how weird is that?!

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  • by Nice Guy In Bay Area on June 18th, 2009

    Nice Guy In Bay Area

    Yes. It is part of our compeitive nature to conquer what we want. Same as in sports. But, our society and morals get in the way of that.

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  • by endowed - out on June 2nd, 2009

    endowed - out

    I do not get turned on by the thought of raping someone. I have too much respect for people to do that. I was surprised to find out that my wife got turned on by the thought of being raped. I thought about wearing a mask one day and mugging her while she was home alone but I couldn't act that out. I am curious to see her reaction but in all honesty, I couldn't do it.

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  • by Anonymous on September 13th, 2008

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    if the girl likes it, how is it actually rape. maybe hes forcing her at first but from there i see it as consenual if she getting off and likes it.

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  • by Possum on December 21st, 2007

    Possum

    how about non-violent (but firm) role playing?

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  • by digitaljim on March 20th, 2010

    digitaljim

    I know we're talking only about fantasies, but I don't think I've ever fantasized/wanted to rape someone. But....I didn't have fantasies about lots of guys raping my ex-wife.

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  • by jTads on February 18th, 2010

    jTads

    I usaully don't have them on my own. Usually I have them when women sort of push my mind in that direction. In one case, I had a female friend who used to tell me about her rape fantasies, and so I started occasionally imagining what it would be like to filfill her fantasies... but I couldn't act on them. In another case I was friends with a girl who had broken up with her boyfriend. She hadn;t had sex in a month and she was really horney, so after class when I walked her to her care she started yelling "Someone please rape me!" That put some ideas in my head too.

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  • by anonymous on October 1st, 2010

    anonymous

    I fantasize about rape all the time.... with girls of all ages. im a 27 year old male (in PA) and i want to find a woman to act out my fantasies with. I am finding it harder and harder to keep myself from actually doing it.... i mean i know its wrong and would never ever want to hurt someone like that.... but some part of me takes over and just wants to ravage these girls i see everyday. i need to feed this need somehow.

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  • by AmazingLlorT on February 10th, 2011

    AmazingLlorT

    I don't know if it counts as rape. But I always thought it would be pretty hot to taze a girl and just kinda rub my hardon against her cheek or something while she is stunned.

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  • by Anonymous on June 23rd, 2011

    Anonymous

    My wife likes for me to get her naked, tie both hands and both feet to the four corners of the bed ( using some straps with velcrose we picked up specifically designed for that purpose ), and "force" her to have sex with me as she wiggles and squirms as much as possible attempting to resist me ! She's admitted she fantasizes about it being a complete stranger who is "raping" her, it DOES turn her on, and it DOES "get her off" ! Of course I enjoy it TOO - I ( like I think MOST guys ) sometimes like to fantasize about "raping" a woman - but I always fantasize the woman ends up ENJOYING it which is what's so good about when my wife and I fantasize about HER getting "raped" ! Although she starts OUT attempting to resist me as much as possible and saying "no - no - NO" she always ends UP enjoying it and saying "yes - yes - YES - PLEASE fuck me - fuck me HARD" ! THAT'S what turns ME on - I couldn't get into a situation where a woman didn't end up getting INTO being "raped" - that wouldn't appeal to me at ALL !

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  • by Fenchurch on July 3rd, 2011

    Fenchurch

    I used to have a lover who would hurt me on purpose without my permission. At first I was really into it but as we got further along he wanted to do it more and I wanted to do it less. I guess I do like a little roughness but I prefer a tender touch.

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