Guys; many women have a rape fantasy, they dont actually want to be raped but thinking about it gets them off. So do guys have a fanatasy to rape women but wouldnt actually do it?
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I certainly don't.
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how about non-violent (but firm) role playing?
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I don't mind being the dom in the sex act, but calling it rape would creep me out. Call it being aggressive or being dominant, but it HAS to be consensual and even perceived to be consensual for me to enjoy it. I never want to have sex and have need for a "safe" word.
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I have had this fantasy several times before, very detailed, and would love to if the right person and occasion came to pass to be able to act it out without it being "real". Just the idea of being forcefull I guess.
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im a guy and have rape fantasies all the time, especially with female friends. sometimes when im with an attractive female friend i wonder what would happen if i just threw her down and ripped off her clothes, or if i unzipped my pants and shoved my **** in her mouth. or sometimes when im behind a hot girl i'll imagine reaching under her shirt and squeezing her breasts. sorry to be graphic but its just what i think about. i know it would be horrible and wrong to do these things in real life but i do think about it.
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if the girl likes it, how is it actually rape. maybe hes forcing her at first but from there i see it as consenual if she getting off and likes it.
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Noooo way. I like kinky stuff as much as the next person, but rape is completely 100% wrong and I would never consider it as a fantasy. Rape is nonconsensual. Where's the turn-on in that? It turns me on knowing that my girl is getting off, that she's loving what I'm doing to her. Rape fantasies are for really desperate people, no disrespect. And it's dangerous because enough fantasizing can lead to other things.
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Occasionally I will see an absolutely gorgeous girl, and i will think about what it would be like if i could just have my way with her, however raping girls involves hurting her, because a painless rape is impossible, and hearing her scream in pain and kick and bite is a turnoff, I wouldn't even get a hard on. I could molest her though. That's a turnon.
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I dont know about rape.. but I wouldnt mind roughing a women up while having sex!!!!
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Yeah i do but i wouldn't call it rape more like being very very rough with her but with controlled aggression (ie nothing over the top like no heavy brusing) Me personal i think women like the idea of "controlled aggression" more, not rape!
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I came across this searching for why rape turns me on and thought I would share my experience. I have never played out a rape fantasy. Things I have done. Tying the girl up, her own underwear in her mouth, spanking, choking, slapping the boobies (hehe). I love the verbal abuse too. Like I will make her ask me for permission to orgasm (girls turn out to like probably more than I, with intense orgasms), or saying things like "I love your c*ck in my mouth". I had one gf who said I could have sex with her while she was asleep, and I did it once when I came home from a club. It turned me on huge, but I never did it again. I think it also kinda scared me she didn't wake up at all..if a girl tried to do me, I'd like to think I'd wake up, I mean I've woken up to a morning BJ, so... yes guys do fantasize and no I would never actually rape someone. Strangely enough I would actually vote yes to execute rapists if it was ever proposed.
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I came across this searching for why rape turns me on and thought I would share my experience. I have never played out a rape fantasy. Things I have done. Tying the girl up, her own underwear in her mouth, spanking, choking, slapping the boobies (hehe). I love the verbal abuse too. Like I will make her ask me for permission to orgasm (girls turn out to like probably more than I, with intense orgasms), or saying things like "I love your c*ck in my mouth". I had one gf who said I could have sex with her while she was asleep, and I did it once when I came home from a club. It turned me on huge, but I never did it again. I think it also kinda scared me she didn't wake up at all..if a girl tried to do me, I'd like to think I'd wake up, I mean I've woken up to a morning BJ, so... yes guys do fantasize and no I would never actually rape someone. Strangely enough I would actually vote yes to execute rapists if it was ever proposed.
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I do not get turned on by the thought of raping someone. I have too much respect for people to do that. I was surprised to find out that my wife got turned on by the thought of being raped. I thought about wearing a mask one day and mugging her while she was home alone but I couldn't act that out. I am curious to see her reaction but in all honesty, I couldn't do it.
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Yes. It is part of our compeitive nature to conquer what we want. Same as in sports. But, our society and morals get in the way of that.
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Yes they do. Did you ever hear of Dr. Jekle and Mr. Hyde? Did you ever see the movie "Extremities"? There is a hormonal desire to spread one's blood line and a desire to do it by force. Plus, the idea that you can just overpower a woman, do it and then leave her is tempting.
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Yes, I do find a "rape fantasy" very hot. I would never actually rape a woman, but the thought of forcing myself on her, whilst she struggles is very hardon inducing.
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NO.... NO BUT, I have fantasies about being raped by another man.... how weird is that?!
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One time my on again off again lover was ready to kick me out of the house and I knew it. I sat late into the night drinking and watching porn. I decided I was going to get it one last time. I went in the bedroom and took what I wanted. She told me later that that was the best sex we ever had. She did not know she was being raped.
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I'm a girl..and I've thought I have many fantasies about having a man force himself on me..but it's usually with guys I know..not just a stranger. I have also imagined myself raping a guy :) One fantasy is I'm somewhere really dark and I wait for a cute guy to walk by, then I grab him and pull him into a dark corner or I throw him down onto a chair, cover his mouth with my hand and tell him to shut up then just climb onto his :) and rape him..after I'm done I just get off, slap him (not really hard) and leave....lol..I'm not sure why I want to slap him..but I do..seems like a nice ending.
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Being kidnapped and having my body taken by force by a handsome rogue who knows what he wants and takes it........repeatedly, and he forces me to conceive and bear his child, and then living happily ever after with the rogue and our little one...........I know...so twisted...but I love it! What a turn on!
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