Then that is called an obsession not true love. true love teaches you to stay with person knwoing and accepting his faults and still you keep loving him/her.

Being married now for 16 years. True love is about a lot of things compromise being one. Learn to accept that people like yourself have faults and we need to move on.

I don't believe it's really love if you can't accept the other person's faults. What do you do? Well, you let him or her be the human that he or she is or you let him or her find someone who will let him or her be the human that he or she is.

you cannot be truly in love then. True love is where you want to be with your SO no matter what :) even if they rob a bank, you hide them away, and continue loving them, till the end of the age.

move out.

I know...its hard. I loved someone a lot but they were always yelling. I always seemed to be distracting them or taking time from their work. Always, always. I would hear every day: "You always choose the worst times don't you?" Over and over. It seemed it was always "the worst time". I started thinking maybe another girl would be less disruptive to him. I left. But its hard because I liked him a lot. A lot of people liked him. He was a very nice guy, very sweet and good looking. Culturally, I suppose I couldn't be like the Persian women he was used to. I admired them for their self-control but I suppose I didn't have that. He wanted everything a secret. He never wanted anyone to know if we had problems. If I let anyone know I would pay the price! But, he's wonderful to me anyway but I guess I would always be obnoxious to him because I couldn't follow his ways. But I do feel really bad about all the fighting that took place near the end. It was always me taking his time and him screaming and throwing tantrums. It made me feel awful about myself. He's totally oblivious to how I feel though. He wakes up the next morning after yelling at me and goes off to work or class or to a party and feels super happy, totally unaware of how much pain I am in and how much I miss him. I suppose I was the wrong girl to handle that kind of person. I wish I had been the right one though! By the way...If he knew I was writing this on a public site...I would absolutely suffer!

I believe the legal term is divorce:)

I love a man who is kind, loving and smart but although he says I am beautiful and he has never been with anyone so beautiful, he won't make love to me but I found out he goes to prostitutes and he said that he cannot imagine only ever being with one woman for the rest of his life (I am 28 he is 52). I am not allowed to go out at the weekend nor does he take me anywhere and as long as I obey him I don't get shouted at. I now have bulimia and I am also epileptic and he is understanding about that and tries to help. He says I should be grateful to him for being with me at all, is he right am I asking too much? I don't want to be in a celibate relationship and I get frustrated which makes me moody and he tells me I am a spoiled brat, nuts and selfish.

You answered your own question "can't live with their faults". If you can't live with something, you obviously need to leave. It will be best for the both of you in the long run.

If possible, try to adjust how you react to their faults and let them know -- maybe there can be a compromise somewhere, good luck... :-)