ANSWERS: 13
  • I think experience has taught women just what exactly "nice guys" have that "bad boys" lack.
  • I've liked the nice ones all along. It is based on the person and what they are looking for.
  • I'm 28 I like compassionate, modest guys but with that manly way about them...
  • hmm..yeah, that doesn't apply to me.
  • Maybe the older guys have matured from their 'bad boy' youth, therefore, the older women nab them, whereas the younger chicks get the bad boys.
  • I like my men to have an edge to them - maybe they were 'bad boys' who haven't quite grown out of it, so there's still an element of danger. But they still have to value themselves and have respect for me to really make it work. BTW, I'm an 'older woman'!
  • A mature woman will make a more educated choice of man, than a younger woman. The mature woman is looking at the big picture, the future, can he support a family, will he be a good dad, can I count on him as I grow old. A young woman, will be more superficial, and concerned with what he drives, how he looks, does he have a good time, etc.
  • As you mature you will tire of getting the shaft from these bad boys, nobody wants to be punished forever.
  • I don't think it depends on the age as much as it depends on the person. I've liked both sweet guys and immature guys. I would only pursue a relationship with a guy who has a soft side to him. If the guy is just plain out immature period, I would not initiate a relationship with him unless I was completely in love and totally blind to all of his flaws, or could see them and just didn't care. Sweet guys still have priority in my love life, though. I love it when a guy actually makes me FEEL something. It's only really the sweet guys that can make me FEEL that something that I want to feel. I also want to say things and do things for the guy to make his heart melt, as well! :)
  • Ive always liked nice guys Ive never been much into bad boys. Plus nice guys have wild side 2 :).
  • As a younger - older woman, who is single, I can tell you that I tend to go after the sweet guys mostly, but I have on occasion, hit on a younger hottie too! In that case, I may have just had sex on my mind, I'm only human, after all. For a genuine relationship though, I want a nice guy who is fun to be with, sincere, warm, and a good communicator. Bad boys tend to be selfish and self centered, and they will treat women like crap, because they just want what they want usually. Sure, he may be sexy as hell,and I know how hard it is to resist him, but still, put your own needs first and don't let that hot 25 year old treat you like dirt, just for the sex. It's not worth your self esteem going out the window the next day. There are good men out there, and I intend to find the best one for me, who will be a gem amongst men, with a real heart and soul, who isn't afraid of real LOVE.
  • Well....some of us still like the bad boys, but have learned (after writing too many checks to bail bondsmen and divorce attorneys...) that nice guys can have a bad side to them that only comes out in the appropriate, uh, room.
  • In some way I agree but I mostly think it's the maturity of the woman not her age that defines her choices.

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