I say you need to be cautious when falling in love with someone from internet it can be dangerous sometimes.

I have the same thing, i love someone i met online, we chat text and call each other, we are so close. We are planning to meet one day although we are separated by millions of miles... I hope we get married. Good Luck with you

I know how you feel because I'm going through the same thing right now. My story is very complicated and long so i'll just say this: We are both married but misserable with our spouses, we both live miles and miles away. We send eachother emails, chat online and call eachother. We are both afraid of where this is leading but we both feel we could be happy together. Hopefully we will meet soon and if there are sparks then I guess we'll go from there.

Actually, I have experienced that. There was a guy I met on a message board and we chatted a lot on AIM and through e-mails and Private Messages and on the message board itself. I really did love him, and I know that I would have loved him even if I met him in person. He decided it wouldn't work out, though, so we're over.

My advice is to make very sure of who you are with. Although I have seen some of the most beautiful relationships develop through the internet, I have also seen people get very hurt. The person ends up not being anything that they claimed. And it took over two years to find out the truth. Ask yourself these questions. Is he completely upfront about everything? Do you ever feel like he is hiding things? Does he get defensive when you ask about certain things? Does he give you vague answers on any questions you ask? If you were to tell him you are on your way to see him right then and there, what would his reaction be? I do find it very easy to evaluate a persons character online, but there are people who are good at pretending out there, and even the best have been fooled. I think it will be a balance of allowing yourself to explore it if you feel you want to, but being cautious that you are not just being played. The getting played part can really hurt if you end up giving more than you get.

I met this person online via MySpace. He added me as a friend, and I granted the request. We chatted maybe 8 times totally. After three times chatting, he told me that he wanted to get married to me. Which to me was beyond the edge of reasoning. I never met him or knew him well. Then he started sending a bulletin to all my friends that I was his wife and everyone should back off. His friend contacted me telling me she was the ring carrier. He's in Iraq btw serving country. So the last couple of weeks I told him NO I'm not marrying you period. Now today he sent me a message he's not accepting a no and none else is marrying me. He's taking a leave from Iraq. My point is that there are a lot of crazy people out there. And we should be very very cautious with what we say or do. Meet his/her family, learn more about his friends, his childhoud. Verify all the facts. Can you fall in love online? of course! before internet and in the 1800 people had only letters and couriers to give them to their loves, who they might not have met ever. But again be realistic

I have experienced something like that in the past.

We met thru my job over the phone. I used to work for an upscale matchmaking agency. We talked a little and he ended up saying he wasn't interested in our services any more but wanted to talk to me instead. We talked on the phone basically 24/7 after that. If I was at work I called him during breaks and lunch. We would stay up late talking and watching TV together,listening to music exchanged a few pics and having phone sex later on. This went on for 3 months. He kept saying how he never met someone like me and it was vice versa for me. He said he wasn't used to having friends that didn't want money and/or favors from him, but 1 day he said he wanted to stop talking. I "got him back" a couple weeks later but he did it again and now he has completely stopped everything. He even blocked my number from 1 of his lines. I know he's not married, never has been and lives in one of his parent's homes. He is a pilot but was suspended from flying because of drinking on job. He doesn't have to work and I think he was a sex addict (internet) too. Sounds kind of like a loser, but I am so heatbroken I can't seem to get him out of my mind. Why do you think he just cut me off like that? We were supposed to meet but I kind of kept putting it off. He had expressed interest in meeting but towards the end he kept saying to me that I could do so much better than him and I told him I knew but that I still had a weird thing for him. I think we were filling a void we both had and he didn't "need" me any more but I guess I still do. I've been trying to talk to other guys and date, but I keep comparing them to him and they don't measure up. We had to much in common, he was smart and funny, too. Sigh

WOW- So I have been living in AB for over a year now. I promised myself to stay away from relationships as my intent was to come out here after the break up of a 6 yr relationship...to rediscover who i was and get financially set...I stayed away...In May i connected with JJ who was transfered to Canada from the states...we planned and planned on meeting and the funny thing was he was staying less than 10 minutes in a hotel from where I am living...than the call came...He had to fly home due to an emergency...while he was away we continued chatting and talkign just wanting to get the opportunity to meet...than while he was gone- I realized I wanted to head back home in a few months that I was done here and I was going back home to the family!!! Would you believe it...I waited without pressure...thinking i will tell him when he gets back as the emergency was more important to attend to at the time. Than the call came through...and well He was offered a position back home in the East...his heart belonged there so I told him to take it...as I knew I was headed back and never had the chance to say it yet to him...amazing how life works...its been over 4 months now...and I will be home in 2 months...he will be flying down to visit his sister who lives in the same province...we will be meeting for the first time...We chat on cam on send one another packages...I know hes the one...but how strange is it...how can you just say that to someone....God - Wish me luck I really feel i found the one!

I have been chatting to a guy for nearly a year now and I completely took for granted how he made me feel. We spoke on msn and on the phone and he has grown to be one of my closest friends. Sad I know as I have never met him! But he means a lot to me. He has just gone out for 3 months to South Africa on a volunteer project he encouraged me to do. I am heading out to India with the same company at the end of this month for 3 months also. It's only since he left that I have realised how much I care and miss him. I won't speak to him now til I get back in January and it's killing me. When I get back I am going to make sure we can meet so I can see if this spark is for real. I think he feels the same by how we speak to one another. I seriously feel like I have fallen in Love with him and I can't believe it. I definitely know what love is as I have been in love before, I was with my ex for nearly a decade. This is eating away at me and it is taking all my energy not to think about him. I miss him so much and have every sympathy for anyone that is going through a simliar situation. Love really does hurt!!

I was in the same boat a few months ago. I met this guy over the phone because he was a prospective client for an upscale matchmaking service I was working for. After we spoke briefly he said he didn't want our service but that he wanted to continue talking to me. He said he lived in a really nice area near me and had 2 really nice cars and a big house with a pond in the back yard. We spoke almost 24/7 on the phone and became unseperable best friends. Long story short... the house was his parents' cuz he was still living w/ them. He was let go from his job because of alcoholism, he only had 1 car and got his money from a trust fund type thing from his parents. He also tried to commit suicide and ended up calling 911 on himself. He told me that was the 2nd time he did that. Needless to say I was so gullible and must have been so vulnerable at that time to want to believe everything he was telling me. God, I thought I had trust issues before...now I really have them! ;D

I fell in love with my fiance the same way. i loved him way before we met. We have now been in a relationship for over 5 years and are engaged and have a child. It can work, but I do agree that you have to be careful.

I met my current man over the net, we talked online and on the phone for three months. It was just infatuation when we'd tell each other that we loved each other. We found what real love felt like after we had met, went through a whole new stage of infatuation , lived together and been with each other for a while longer.

I have a couple times! When you meet you kind have to go through a sort of reintroduction... sometimes it works and everything fits, sometimes something is just 'off'. So, I say enjoy it, if you meet of course do it in a very public place... but don't expect things to be the same. They'll either be better or worse.

Join the club :S I met him on tagged and we met thru the chat... we got along extremely well and joked around saying i love you to each other... Finally i realized i really did love him... but he had a girlfriend... my friend tried to set us up but he got mad, thinking it was me trying to set us up and trying to get him to dump his girlfriend... i blocked him out of rage and after a couple of months unblocked him... we began talking again... he apologised endlessly and began to put kisses at the end when he was talking to me... sometime soon im planning on telling him that i love him... wish me luck and i hope u both work out xx

nmae:linchea hall.age:19.state: ct:wow im also in love with a man i met 2 years ago.......my nieces wasted to prnk call people and i didnt want them using my boost minutes so i let them use my 2 way and when i automatically heard him speak i was like thats going to be mine everything was soo perfect he was mr.right he means the worl to me but like any other relationship theres problems,break ups and get back together..........weve been planning on meeting but i always back out its like having a baby when its time to come u want to push it back in but it still eventually comes so when i meet him it be wonderful....follow ur heart dont allow anyone come between u 2 there will be obsticles dont elope hunny let him meet u half way and u have a bless day