ANSWERS: 3
  • It kind of sounds like he wants to start over a bit with you, so he's checking how it could be, if you get back together. If this is something you want, a relationship with him, you might want to try working with him. Just don't let him take you for granted, either. Don't be his fall-back girl. Let him know that you are interested, but being pushy might chase him away. I don't think he's messing with you, I think he's testing if it can work again, from the sound of it. Time can be a good thing in a relationship, so go ahead and take it.
  • If he is sincere, then he will agree to start over with dating - from the beginning. No sex, just dating. If he does, I would give him no more than lunch on Christmas Eve. Let him figure out what he wants while you get on with your life.
  • I think you've already answered your own question. Sounds like he's messing with your head and keeping you hanging on as a "backup" until someone better comes along. Sorry to be so blunt, but it sounds like you need to dump him and start fresh with someone who WANTS to be with you.

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