What would you do if your partner came up to you right now,and told you that they are gay/lesbian?
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ANSWERS: 24
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doesn't change anything,i still love you.
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I would be very confused, as he's a firm believer in the Biblical stance against homosexuality. I would also be disappointed, as we JUST got married this year, and I was not planning on being divorced.
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I would ask if I could watch or join!
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I'd ask when she changed her mind. I mean, we were together for MANY years before getting married and all.
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Invite her partner in... Reach for the video recorder... All those "typical male" things... ;-) Had a one night stand with a couple of bi girls in fact. Memorable.
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If MG1942 told me he was a lesbian, I'd book him the earliest electrolysis appointment I could get;)
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I'd look for Rod Serling lurking somewhere in the background saying " Welcome To The Twilight Zone."
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well, considering we are BOTH lesbian, and we've been together over 3 1/2 years, I'd say...."Well, DUH!" LOL!!
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Laugh and say 'I knew it was too good to be true'.
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Well after four kids and twenty years together I would want to know what changed his mind??
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I'd be crushed since we've been together for almost 15 months. I'd want answers and explanations.
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OK then were are they rest of the ladies that need to get over here iv been waiting for this..
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My Girlfriend Is Bi Sexual and it Doesn't bother me in the Slightest.
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lezzbe friends?
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I'd say "Duh!" as we have been partners for over 5 years, with lots of sex.
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well, i dont have a partner, but if i did, i'd ask her for a demonstration.
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i would say...."oh so is that why you dont want to get married and have kids? makes sense...but you sure like my boobs a lot, weird...." then i would say, "should i get tested?" lol what would you say?
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Go get Tested. Right away and Move on with life. What more can you do.
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Ask them "How long have you known?" so I know how bad to feel about my naivety.
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I would be shocked and very hurt...I would be angry because I had invested so much in the relationship. I'd also feel lied to. My wife if she said this would have known before the marriage began that she was like this. Betrayal also is a word that comes to mind. Please understand I am being honest. One of my best friends is transgender male to female. I have seen the pain she has gone through. I have been honest in my feelings though. If this would happen to me I would be very angry etc...I think it is a selfish act to build a relationship you would know from the start didn't have the best intentions with it.
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At first, I would laugh. INCREDIBLY unlikely. Then, I would remember that this is a hypothetical situation. I would be a little hurt, but very supportive. I have a good friendship with my partner and would not want to destroy that by being narrow-minded or cruel. Sometimes coming to terms with the fact that you are gay can be a long and painful process, and I would want to provide as much support to him as I possibly could.
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Be happy for them and encourage them to pursue their happiness. I'd take some recovery time and then move on while keeping them as a friend.
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I would probably sit down because that is heavy. It is no different than basically telling me I am not the one for them and that would hit hard. Who the other person is or what they are really would not matter. I mean I cannot lie and say I would not be a bit shocked because I was brought up where it was hidden and only as I have gotten older have I formed my own beliefs about homosexuality so I would be shocked but not enraged because it was a gay issue. I would probably ask all the questions I REALLy would not want the answers to but for some reason we sometimes punish ourselves worse.. How long have you known? Is there someone else now? Has there been? yadi yadi I would probably tear up a bit but for them to tell me instead of continuing a one sided relationship.. I would probably thank them for telling me and for being decent.
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Laugh in their face. Nice one.
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