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  • The only way to force anyone to leave is to first get a court order. If the court rules in your favor, then the police will help.
  • I would call the police and let them come over and ask him to leave , after you explain your fears and seek help ASAP , you might need to go to a safe home or place until you contact a lawyer , please seek help now ((( HUGS ))) were all here for you + 5
  • In many states you can get a restraining order against him, without a trial that will get him kicked out of your house for 7 days, if you have real expressed fear of him. After 7 days (normally) there will be some kind of trial in which your husband may or may not be present, and the restraining order will be decided upon (to decide if it will be made out for a longer period or if it will be stripped). In many cases the judge will go with you (the one who took out the restraining order) even without a clear amount of evidence for this fear. Just to let you know, if you try to use this as a tool in a divorce (IE you don't really fear for your safety) a judge will most likely look down upon tactics like this. edit; Just to add, a restraining order will get him legally away from you, but if he is bent on hurting you I would highly suggest you change the locks and buy/own a pistol. A dog that doesn't know him would help also.
  • I agree with Yarnlady. talk to a lawyer, get a court order. if that fails, then you call the police.
  • If he hasn't done anything, you can't force him to leave. If you fear for your saftey, contact a local womens shelter and get away from him. If he has done something call the police and he can spend the night in jail. You will still need to make arrangements for your safety when he is released. Take care
  • You can't force him to leave a shared domicile without a court order, but your welcome to leave in the mean time. Be safe good luck.
  • If you are afraid for your safety, leave, as soon as possible. In my experience a violent person does not respond, they react aggressively. They do not behave in any way rationally.
  • it's interesting to me how people answer questions before even trying to get the facts-guess it's a sign of the times, like talk radio. why do you fear for your safety? are the children/pets involved? do you have a job?
  • Contact the police immediately. You need to know your rights, and they are there to help and advise you. If you fear for your safety, get out and go to a friend's or relative's.
  • If it's your parent's apartment, ask the lawyer if they can evict him without evicting you. Be safe and good luck. ((( )))
  • I think you have to do this through a legal process. Plus, if it is his property, you cannot force him to leave. If you are scared so much, leave and go to a womens shelter (I cannot use punctuation correctly at the moment as my sister has some odd setup for her keyboard and I am using her laptop.)
  • You could talk to the police or get legal advice form a local solicitor....if your scared you need to do something, good luck :)
  • In my state you can. It never used to be like that but there was a domestic violence incidence where a man told the judge that he'd kill his wife. The judge didn't take him seriously until he shot her dead. The laws changed after that
  • I don't have an answer for you, but you're in my prayers. Stay safe and let me know if there is anything I can possibly do.
  • You might have to. I dunno. Just do something about it. Don't follow the pattern of all the other wives with abusive husbands who don't do anything cuz they're afraid.
  • I'm not sure that you can force him to do anything without taking some sort of legal action. Have you tried calling the doctor(s) that are prescribing him the drugs and voicing your concerns? You may be able to get the doc to rethink some of his prescriptions if he realizes that he's put someone's family and welfare in danger. I'm glad he hasn't hurt you yet, but unfortunately that puts you in a bind as far as having any sort of legal recourse. Call your local women's shelter or women's crisis hotline or something like that. Even if they can't DO anything for you or offer you a place to stay, they might be able to help you further understand what your options are as far as getting him out, or let you know what your next logical step should be. My mom works for a women's crisis hotline in CA, and as far as I know even if they can't offer shelter, they can offer advice. You could also try calling a lawyer for similar advice, and to figure out how to get your divorce papers in order...because that needs to happen ASAP. Also, I'm not sure if you would feel safe doing this, but perhaps if you try to talk to him when he's sober and rational, see if he won't leave of his own accord. If you EVER fear for your immediate safety or that of your son, take him and go, even if you lock yourself in your parent's house or go to a nearby friend for the night. I'm so sorry you're in this awful situation, good luck resolving it, and I hope you and your son remained unharmed!
  • If you feel in danger of your husband call the police and have him removed. The police can help you file a proctive order against him. Be sure you can back up what you say though my ex had me removed but it was dismissed in court because she had nothing to back up the accusations.
  • If He is Dangerous, I would Leave. I do not know if this is a good idea for you but it sounds Logical to me. Nothing is more important than you and your safety. Property can be replaced but not your LIFE!
  • Things You’ll Need: time to go to court Step1First of all if you want to have someone vacate a home you need to be financially ready to take on the coasts of the home.... Their is no guarantee that the costs associated with the property will be split by the other party or paid by them. Usually in a divorce the mortgage may be split or paid all by a party,, but the electric, gas telephone and water is usually paid for by the party living in the home. Remember the party leaving now has to pay to live some place else. Step2If it is a divorce you can go to your local Probate Court and as part of the divorce filing you can file a Motion to have the other party vacate the marital home.. In most cases the party may be given 30-45 days to leave or the may be allowed to live in the home when they have their children or be ordered to live and or stay on a specific floor. Step3You may also get a party to vacate your home if you file for a restraining order, therefore thay are court ordered not to be in that home or on the property.. Please se my article on Restraining order for this... http://www.ehow.com/how_2186373_husband-boyfriend-vacate-home.html check out my other legal articles on ehow
  • First, your husband has just as much right to live in the same hourse or apartment as you. Is there a past history of violence between you two? Has your husband been arrested for domestic violence in the past? These are questions the police will ask you, after you make the call. An Order of Protection will probably be in order and you will have to file one. The police call comes first.
  • You know, assholes like him make me sick if you are telling the truth. My wife kicked me out just by making up a story but I wanted to go on my own. Well the cops came and arrested me because she had called 3 times before that and they never took me in since there was no evidence. On the fourth time her wish came true. I suggest you file for a divorce and dump this scumbag. No one deserves to be treated like that. I actually left the country too, just read my questions. I love my new life.

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