ANSWERS: 11
  • I think if you feel that your relationship is only about sex, you should definately not have a baby now....speak to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and if he realy loves you he will respond in a loving, caring way about this....if not my advise would be that you should probably get out of that relationship because it is already diffucult to bring a child up in this hectic world and would be even worse to bring a baby into this world throug a loveless relationship then.....but I hope that he does love you,,,that would be nice.
  • Your gut instincts are telling you what to do. Listen to them. Your boyfriend sounds insecure. If you feel the relationship is all sex...then it is not much of a relationship. Marriage? NO WAY... Children? NO WAY.. This relationship would only fail if you had kids and married..and you would be the one struggling to raise a child alone. NOPE NOPE NOPE... Don't do it.
  • So the whole relationship is meaningless.... personally, I think you should say to him "I love you". If he doesn't respond lovingly, then he really is just using you as a doormat. Remember, saying no and losing him is nowhere near as bad as saying yes and ending up as a mother of 101 and with a rhino for a husband.You really don't want to wreck your life like that. So, ask. if he answers badly, he's not worth the pain that would be coming to you in the future.
  • ARE YOU NUTS!!!! If your in this for sex - then just have sex. there's a difference between love and sex. you may feel like its love during sex - it doesn't sound like it. i dont think marriage should be in the picture right now and definetly do not have kids now!! they are forever. your life will change forever. you sound like you need to do some soul searching and maybe date some other people besides your boyfriend.
  • Find someone with a small child, and have you BF spend a week (if he can) with the child, caring for it everyday. That will surely open his eyes to reality.
  • WOW that is crazy just ry to slow things down
  • If your relationship is centered around sex, then it would be wise to reevaluate what really matters...YOU!However, it seems like he thinks your relationship is more than what it really is. Furthermore, if you feel that you are not ready, then let your boyfriend know your stand on the situation. Having a baby comes with alot of responsibility and not to mention is a permanent job! What he needs to realize is that once you two have the baby you will be linked to each other for life, even if you have broken up! The real question should be is he truly ready for that big of a commitment?
  • say no, I don't want to have kids even if that means taking a break. Your body, your rules.
  • wow some girls would kill for your sitiuation lol! but i think that kind of decision should be made by both people equally. just take things slow.
  • Use birth control. Babies are forever.
  • if your not ready just tell him. and if he really loves you he will under stand just tell him you want to be a kid not have one... there are so many guys like that and if your not ready for it then just find a nice way to tell him i love you but i want to be a kid right now. this is not tyler right now this is his cuz nay nay.

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