ANSWERS: 10
  • Just The fact that he is gay has nothing to do with it. I wouldn't allow somebody gay or straight, male or female to treat me like that. Just tell him where to get off.
  • "look, this has wierded me out, i am ok with you, but this bugs me" or something like that
  • Just tell him not to do it again. :)
  • Why is the fact that he's gay even important? Would you be less weirded out if a straight guy did this to you? o_O? Just tell him not to do it again, the same exact way you would tell any straight friend.
  • you have lots of good answers here no sense in me repeating them-take three to cancel out the downrater-its a good question
  • I assume you mean he tried to bite a chunk out of your shoulder? This is not normal behaviour for someone obviously old enough to make choices in life. Actually it implies a very unusual mindset. I would distance myself from him rather quickly. I do mean physically distance yourself from him. Don't tell him where you are going or even if you are going. Tell your parents! Psychopaths often have the tendency to bite their victims. As children they also like to start fires, are cruel to small children & animals & have been bedwetters. These 3 signs existing together without the biting are enough for concern. If you know he has done these things, you need to tell someone who will listen & act. Oh & psychopaths are not sick, they are sickening! They actually choose to behave like this because it pleases them to do so. Do the research for yourself. You don't have to believe me.
  • You seem to automatically link his strange behaviour to the fact that he is gay, so maybe you have more of a problem with gay people than you let on.
  • Is "chunk out of my shoulder" a euphemism for some sexual act??? I think I'm getting old.
  • Your friend's problem isn't that he is gay, he is mentally ill. What you are descibing is bizarre and pathological. He needs medical help. I wish you luck.
  • communicate your problems, chances are he hasn't even realized the offense.

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