I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend. Or my first kiss. Is this normal? All girls my age who I've met have been kissed, had a boyfriend and have even gone all the way (NOT that I plan on doing that!) What to do?
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Aimee
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YES....this is absolutely normal. I honestly don't think this is something you should rush or worry about. When the right person comes along, you will know, and everything will just happend naturally. Good choice about waiting on "going all the way". Be sure it is someone you love, be sure you are safe, and be sure you are ready. If I could be 15 again, I would absolutely wait for the right one and not rush it. Good luck!
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hi im 18 now and i have to say that not having kissed a guy makes much of a difference i know the most norrmal thing is to compare with the girls you know and are about your same age and i know it can be a bit embarrasing if they ask you but dont worry about that i didnt kiss a guy untill i was 15 and from after that really ive kissed only guys which ive really liked and at the moment im going out with a guy and its great, so trust me dont worry eventually it will all be fine its just that people sometimes are very mean dont worry your time will come and you will find a guy you really like
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You aged very quickly. There is no need to panic to have a boyfriend enjoy just being friends. Wait for the right boy that will be a friend as well as a boyfriend. You are very youn to think of any other kind of relationship. In your other wuestion you are only 13.
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First, Meet different girls your age. Understand most of them are probably lying.
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I didn't have my first boyfriend, or my first kiss, until I was almost 19. I like to think that I skipped all of the high school dating drama and headed right for the real thing. I'm glad I didn't date for so long, my first (And current) boyfriend is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Just wait for it, you are young. It may be a couple years or just a couple days away, but he'll come along soon!
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I am almost 16, and have never had a boyfriend or kiss. I am in no rush, and you shouldn't be either. Just enjoy your life, friends, and the right guy may just come along.
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Not only is it ok, but I'd say it's the best way to go! Hold off on those complications until you're a bit older and less likely to make a huge mess of it - or be made a huge mess of by someone else.
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no, to be frank, you're going straight to Hell unless you can find a way to remedy this problem.
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haha! ok no seriously slow down kid UR THIRTEEN. let it come to you....
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Take it easy junior. You gotta long way to go.
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I chose with strong conviction not to kiss anyone until I was 20...its hard but I think its healthy to wait a little.
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im 15 and ive never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone or done anything. so i really dont know what to do. all of my friends have done everything.
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I had a boyfriend when I was 13 and I had a boyfriend when I was 15. I didn't kiss a guy until I was 17, though. I shared that kiss with my current boyfriend. You're absolutely normal. My advice to you is: Let love find you. Don't go looking for it unless you want to disappoint yourself. Getting your hopes up is one of the worst things anyone can ever do.
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i didnt have either of those until i was 14. dont worry about it, its totally normal. dont rush out and date any guy who gives you the opportunity just because you want a boyfriend. thats what i did, and i regret it. dont make it a priority in your life, you will have a boyfriend eventually. go out and have lots of fun with your friends, and you will meet someone!
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im 16 and havnt even held a guys hand, your not alone
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its normal, i was 15 when i got my first kiss.. 13 when i got my first boyfriend tho.
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You need to meet me! ^.^ hahaa, dont be ashamed, i am still single, i have never had a gf, kiss, or anything...
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i was 16 wen i got my first kiss
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In a desperate bid to make sure they are not the one without a boyfriend many girls go out with any old spotty twat from school for the sake of it. Waiting until someone you are actually attracted to asks you out or inspires you to ask them out is a far cooler move. Shows you know who you are and what you want and that peer pressure is a bore to you.
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Don't worry. I bet you are mature for your age, so you may not be on the same wavelength as all these early bloomers you know. You're not alone, either. I never did any of that stuff until I was 17, and I don't feel that I missed out on anything. Maybe you just haven't had the chance to meet someone you clicked with. I didn't meet my first boyfriend in school. Maybe you should do more outside activities, and you'll meet someone that way.
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dont worry bout it.. when the time is right you will go with your heart. its ok not to kiss any guy yet or to have sex with them it is not all that big of a deal it is just a part of life that you will one day go thru when your are ready.
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I had my first relationship at your age, and I definitely wasn't ready for it. I wanted it, but I learned afterwards that I really wasn't mature enough. And, believe me, it's overrated anyway. Most guys that age are immature.
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You think being 15 and not having a boyfriend is bad?! Try being like me, im 21, male, and never have had a girlfriend or a kiss, every day i ask my self why i dont just kill myself, im so unattractive...believe me your fine at 15. you have at least 5 good years to go before you got to get worried...
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Same with me, i homeschooled so i wasnt around tons of kids, i was more mature and i worked instead of went to schools with tons of kids. Dont worry your really not missing out on anything, when you get out in the real world you will meet soo many more people and you will have a boyfriend. for now, sit back and laugh at all the stupid bf/gf drama your friends are having to go thru.
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