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  • Maybe you should let him know how much you love him and enjoy spending time with him but sometimes you need space and time for just you to get your mind together and just get to know yourself better i feel that is a nice way to put it
  • You can also let him know that you don't want either of you to get lost as an individual, and that "friend" nights should be planned. He goes out with his friends and does something with them, while you have your night out (either alone or with friends).
  • I had this happen to me and trust me its not fun. For me there was no easy way to do this because it is going to hurt him, again I was the clingy one in this situation. Just let him know how you feel, and make sure he understands that in no way does this mean you two are falling apart or that he is losing you. And the last thing, if possible, when you do have the nights out, send him a text during or after the night out just to say like "i love you" or "i miss you" or goodnight. It just helps, and lets him know that even its a night apart, you are still thinking of him. Trust me, that always helps A LOT. Hope this helps.
  • Just tell him you need room to breathe sometimes.
  • Clingy is another word for controlling and at the very least he may have very few outside interests other than you. Could be bad news or just needs to get over the "new car smell" of his hot new girlfriend. Either way, a bit of creative distance between you and him will give you a chance to see what he is really made of.
  • 38 Special song: "Hold On Loosely" will send him the exact medicine. He's got co-dependent tendancy. Time off and he ought to be able to focus on some other aspects of his life; balance. Hope he doesn't turn into a control freak stemming from insecurity! Male mentoring might be the ticket.
  • you could start by saying you need time to yourself and him not being around you 247 will give you a chance to miss him.

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