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  • ...What's wrong with "Hey, I like you?" Or, "What are you doing this evening? Do you want to grab a bite to eat?" Or something like that? Guys have to put themselves out there all the time. I don't see why we shouldn't do so as well, if we're the ones who are interested.
  • You might have to spell things out for him. I've been in his situation, writing off flirting as being friendly because of my own insecurities. Some of us are just that dense.
  • Agreed, go balls to the wall and make the first move.
  • give him a lot of compliments and touch him on the shoulder or something
  • Maybe tone it down a little, "I feel really comfortable around you, how about going for coffee?"
  • find out something he likes - something general (like movies). then lend him your favorite one of them (for me The Crow)and ask him to give you his opinion on it and give him your number. just use this as an in to start talking to him. plus it's a cheeky way to give him your number as well :-) good luck!
  • hugging is also good...it causes the feel happy endorphins to come out :)
  • Just be yourself and giving him a hug and saying he looks good in somethings a plus and saying how you like his company and that you feel safe around him is good too

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