ANSWERS: 4
  • Nope, nope nope, sounds like he needs help...get out
  • If you're not comfortable with it, then I don't agree with his demanding ways. Also, since you're a virgin, he should take extra care since you've never experienced it. On another hand (with the demanding) it might mean he's a dominant. But of course there are good dominants and bad dominants. Good ones do what's best for the other (or the sub if you are) and teach and guide in a respectful way; they don't exploit or use the 'dominant' title just to get what they want or as an excuse to throw you around (figuratively). You can try and read up on dominance and submission and see if you are a sub or are comfortable with being one with him, but if you're not then he doesn't have a right to push you around. I always suggest and praise an open mind but the bottom line is consensuality.
  • First of all, I want to commend you on being a virgin at 30. You are unique to say the least. All I can say is that if you waited this long it must be really important to you or you wanted to wait until you got married?? If this is the case, then if you don't want to marry him or if he is not really special then why settle? You have waited this long already. It should never be because some guy wants it when you don't. I think if he really cared about you he would realize how important this is to you and not push you or say mean things to you. You are special and you deserve someone who thinks of you that way.
  • If you are virgin then my name is bloody well Eva

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