My boyfriend lied to me a few times abt the fact he watched porn secretly; i feel sad abt it cus he is being dishonest..like why does he had 2 do tis? & after he watched porn secretly ; he would wake me up frm sleep & have sex wiv me.. is this right?
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Try watching it together! Maybe he needs this to excite him! Talk to him about what you can do instead of him watching the porn! If he still wants the porn, get a new man!
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i understand u 100% my boyfriend watches porn but why does he lie and he is so convincing at times, thats the problem!!! i dnt mind him watching it as long as he is honest with me but he isnt. i dont know what to do???? p.s him waking u up for sex after watching porn is not right!!!! telling him to fuck off!!!! why does he need porn in the first place if your with him!!!!! us girls should watch porn too and leave trails behind on our computers!! so they know how it feels!!! im sure they wouldnt like it whether innocent or not!
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ok here is the reason why most guy watch porn we use it to distress from a hard day. my wife know i look at it and she love that i take what i learn from it and bring it to the bedroom. it is ok let him see it you lady are not alway in the mood so let him let it out with porn.. he not cheating he just need some visual stimulus to let go the days stress.
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The problem here is the lying and secrecy. Have you done anything to make him think he cannot watch porn openly? Perhaps he has feelings of guilt about porn- make him feel better about it by watching it with him.
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I understand your point of view. If he is lying to you and sneaking around behind your back to watch porn, then there's definitely a problem. I hope you don't think that his porn habits mean YOU aren't attractive, because it doesn't mean that at all. He's the one with the problem, not you. Do you have a problem with the porn, or just with the fact that he's lying about it? If it's the fact that he's lying about it, then tell him you don't care if he watches porn til the cows come home - it's the LYING and sneaking around that bothers you. Once he realizes how his dishonesty is negatively affecting your ability to TRUST him, he'll probably stop.
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i lied to someone about somthing rather similar, it wasn't what i'd done that hurt her, it was that i lied. men will look at other women, we will watch other women, its in our blood. an tbh he shouldn't be waking you up for sex. just dont give it to him all the time, make him work, it will make you seem a challenge.
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Maybe you should secretly take some writing classes...just a suggestion.
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It was you that vandalized my garage! I finally caught you! Now get over here and clean it off!
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My husband lies to me about his porn addiction every single day. This does cause significant trust issues. I hate that he watches porn, I hate that he lies about it, but honestly, I love waking up to him playing with me and getting me off. It hurts quite a bit knowing that he wouldn't otherwise be performing this act on me if he hadn't watched the porn...but at least he's getting off with me, instead of by himself. I would be curious to know if it would bother you being woken up for sex, if he hadn't first used porn to get him going. I know it bothered me for a long time...but then he'd suddenly come up with a new technique that just sends me through the roof and I have to secretly thank whatever source he got it from. I think it's largely just a matter of adapting how you see it. As long as he's not eager for you to leave so he can look at porn, or making excuses to go somewhere where he can look at porn instead of spending time with you, then you're probably okay.
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My ex told me that all men lie. Tell him that the next time he looks at porn he can satisfy himself. And if he wakes you up to have sex with you after he's looked at porn turn in to such a witch he won't do it again. Tell him to wake up the girl in the pictures. LOL.
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