Is it a good idea to suggest a threesome to my boyfriend to test him?

It's never a good idea to trick him into agreeing with something like that. Playing games will just lead to the end of your relationship. If you don't trust him, maybe you shouldn't be his girlfriend.

Test him on what? To see if he has ever fantasized about having two women at once. I bet you anything he has.

I'll assume you are probably talking about testing how faithful he will be to you. Suggesting a threesome is a terrible way to 'test' his faithfulness, or commitment to you. For one if you suggest it, he would assume that you are into it. Thus, you can't tell him he is disgusting or wrong to open up to you and share his fantasy.

Try having a real conversation with him, instead of trying to trick him. If you can not do that, you won't be together very long.

No. It seems underhanded, shady, dishonest, and petty.

The message it will send to your boyfriend is that you are not capable of honest and open discussion and, more importantly, you don't trust him.

Yeah. Guys love it when you play head games with them. What we like is to be tricked by the person we care about.

why is it that women always think they need to test their man...

test are a poor way of judging a person because there are one or two out comes pass or fail.

ya know maybe if people would just grow up and treat each other with a little respect finding a right person for them would be so hard. Notice I said "a" right person not "the"...Because there are more than one person that is right for somebody look at all the
divorces that happen every year in the world.

Female mentality on the issue of fidelity really pisses me off to the extreme. Just grow up and either
leave him or love him don't sit there and look for the bigger better deal keeping him on the stringer.
I don't think he would do that to you.

No it is NOT a good idea. Pretty low down thing to do.

Test him for what?

Don't, your being to "pushy" and that's not wat God would want you to do.
Don't do anything, innapropriate until after your married.

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what are you testing?? if you have to "test" him with a threesome instead of just talking to him or asking him directly maybe you want to reevaluate your relationship....hope everything goes well good luck

How would that "test him" ? MOST guys fantasize about MFF threesomes - if you "suggest" doing one how does that "test" how he feels about YOU ? If he SUSPECTS it's a "test" he may deny any interest - but if he LIKES the idea that certainly doesn't mean he's any less emotionally involved with YOU- does it ? If he feels YOU have an interest in doing something he's more than likely FANTASIZED about do you think it's reasonable for him to DENY any interest ?

You didn't mention a "gender" - there's of course a MMF threesome - he, like a LOT of men, may have fantasized about that one TOO ! If he has any voyeuristic tendacies he make like the idea of "watching" you have sex with another guy - or of joining another guy in "double teaming" YOU to maximize YOUR sexaul pleasure ! If you "suggest" doing one he may, again, feel like YOU have an interest in doing something HE'S interested in doing !

I'd say trying to "test" him probably isn't a good idea - and it wouldn't even be an accurate determination of how he feels about you. I'd suggest you TALK to him if you have concerns or doubts - would you want him to "test" YOU about anything ? I doubt it - not a very good foundaion to build a relationship upon ...

No don't do it, because chances are even if he loves you if you brought up the chance of having a threesome and seemed completely okay with it he might say yes.. If my girlfriend brought it up and seemed like she wanted it and was okay with it i'd probably say yes too. So definately don't do it, it's wrong to play games like that.

All good answers. I think they are right. Not a good plan at all.