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  • First you need to figure out WHY you're no longer happy in your relationship. I would hesitate to just throw away a 2 year relationship. Sometimes relationships go through rough patches and some people can be quick to throw it away. It is best to first try and work through your issues than to run away from them. I would assume that you must care for your current boyfriend if you have stayed with him for so long. Now I don't know you're complete story, so it makes it a little hard to give you clear cut advice. So if the relationship is absolutely not salvagable and you just do not care about him at all, then you should end it to save you both further heartache. I would not go after his friend though. I personally think that would be wrong.
  • you need to figure out what is is that your unhappy with. If its something you can change or he can then do it or talk to him about it and see if this issue is fixable. If its not then go you separte ways. Ya'll are young and sometimes even though you've been together for so long people change, especailly when they are young. I mean thinnk about it you are way different from how your are now to how your were when you were 5 or 10. People change their whole life, but it mostly happens in your teenage years. You can't change a person only they can decide to do that themselves. As far as this 31 year old goes... You need to watch out. If this 31 year old likes you you may not know it but he could be attracted to young girls. It is illegal for ya'll to be together. He is in a stage in lifw that you arent in yet. Your still figuring thing out and he's not. If things dont work out with your current boyfriend and you are still intrested in his friend I would definately at least wait until you are 18 to be dating this guy.

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