ANSWERS: 8
  • If he was abusive to you, it won't change sweetie. This is your chance to move on with out having to worry about him stalking you. You have to cut all ties with him & let him know that you will not tolerate abuse of any kind. You deserve better than that. If you get hooked up with someone while he's incarcerated, let the new guy know what's going on & if he cares about you, he'll have your back. Just stick to yoru guns because no one deserves to be treated like scum. Do not confuse love with fear or good sex. It's all a mind f*ck & he has a grip on you & knows it. You have to be strong & let him know that you deserve better.
  • Abusive ppl never change. they may put on a front for a while but it all comes around full circle. He is who is he is & you cannot change it. Do you want your kids grow up seeing how abusive he is towards you. Break the ties for your & yoru kids sake. That behavior is teaching your kids that it is normal & acceptable. Think about you & yoru kids safety. That is the most important thing that you have to worry about as a mother. Men will come & go in & out of yoru life but your kids need you & you are useless if you are living in fear or depression. They learn how to act by you as the role model. If they grow up in an environment that is hectic, they will think that it's "normal" & will have bad relationships in their future. THINK ABOUT YOU & YOUR KIDS SAFETY. They need you more.
  • I think you should move on..look at this as an oppurtunity...you cant change people.
  • He is not going to change and the truth of the matter is he may be worse when he gets out. Focus on yourslef so you can find a great guy who will truly love and care for you.
  • sweetie a guy like that who is abusive or kind of abusive is not worth the wait and dont be scared heres what u do when he gets out of jail he will be issued a restraining order all u have to do is go 2 court b4 he gets out and talk 2the judge and when he gets out it will be issued good luck
  • go on with your life hon dont wait for an abusive person to abuse you again
  • You shouldnt wait for this guy he is not worth it at all!!!!!!!!!!!! please listen because my mom was in that same situation and lets just say that the guy didnt change his ways at all trust me there somebody way better out here or there for you
  • thanks everyone for the help, since then i have left the guy and moved on. I met someone else and we now are living together. thanks for the help!!

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