ANSWERS: 6
  • Sleeping together can't be on the top of your list doll. I realize that's some of the fun part, but it's certainly not the ONLY part. If you're really close friends then he won't be scared off if you choose to talk to him about it.
  • IF YOU THINK YOU KNOW HES INTERESTED IN YOU GO FOR IT THE WRIST HE CAN SAY IS NO SO ACT ON YOUR FEELINGS
  • I think it's usually best to let things naturally progress. He may be interested in you, but not ready for a relationship just yet. If he is ready, then it could easily just turn into a relationship, but if he's not ready and you bring it up, it will likely intimidate him.
  • Sleeping with a good friend usually destroys the friendship. The best way is for the friendship to develop into a romantic relationship naturally. Since he is a good friend, and you know he is interested in you (NOTE: knowing is different than THINKING, so be sure you are right), I think you should talk to him about it. Playing games won't help you, and neither will jumping right into bed together.
  • I'm in same situation. We talk every day, and share everything with each other. I did talk to him recently about it, told him I was crazy about him etc, and he took it surprisingly well. My male friend is currently going through a separation and he said he thought the world of me, but right now he needs a mate to make him smile, not added pressure of a new relationship so soon. Which is fair enough. It hasn't damaged the friendship at all, so i guess my advice would be, to be honest. Tell him you think he's awesome, and ask if he sees anything other than friendship with you. I told my crush that I had picked up on a chemistry that I thought might be worth pursuing. He said it is, but maybe now isn't the right time, but we're cool. Good luck
  • I have had a just a friend thing and for like 15 years and it is soo dependant on whether or not the attraction is equal/reciprocity.... Unfortunately for me... I have been very attracted to her and she does not have "those" feelings.. no kissing no hugging no touching... crossed the line many times... and sometimes control and using sex as a weapon or for control... not good... if he has an attractionm towards you ... you would know... it should not be a mystrey,... a good way to find out as being a man.... walk up to him... give hi a hug...innocent enough and see how he hugs you back......or just test him with the odd touch now and again...subtle. words will only confuse the issue.and good frineds will survive if ......cheers!

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