Yes. If you view the expeirence as just "friends with benifs." or just a friendly encounter, then you will not be destroyed, unless however the person on the other end felt differently, then emotions may boil over... If you are in a long term relationship, then emotions maybe tied into the picture. 9 out of 10 guys think of sex is just getting a good time and hoping to never see you again... 1 out of 10 guys however, think more of sex than just sex. They put their hearts and souls into it and they are the ones who care about how you feel afterwards, etc...

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. I would say 3 out of 10 guys believe sex is more than sex and certainly better when there is some substance behind the chic than just a human j*** o** rag. Gals often do not take the time to know them because they maybe are not the suavest or most charming guys. Women tend to focus on those considered hotties who can get any gal and need not be loyal to any one of them. Most of those type of guys chics are just something to get their jollies loose because they do want a sexual release but don't want to handle it themselves, all puns intended. Many guys sex is just that, a act of recreation. If they really like it the may prolong the encounter until it gets old. If it was just fine or OK, then they won't call back, unless action for better sex is slow and they know the gal is 80% wiling to get naked whenever they call. Most women seem to need to attach some emotion, real or imagined, to the act of sex. Which leaves many scared when they find it is not them the guy is interested in just what parts or available orifice they have. Which is a very good reason for the legalization of prostitution so there need be no emotional ties involved at all. One pays for the service of the other with no emotional BS to be misinterpreted.