You need to politely introduce yourself to the girl. Then, start talking about everyday things such as favorite school subjects, favorite foods, hobbies, interests, etc. You might start off by saying, "Hi, girl's name. my name is fill-in-the-blank. What have you been doing lately? Say there's [include some event that you might enjoy like an upcoming school party, or school dance] and ask her if she would like to go along with you? Hopefully, after you begin talking with her and she likes you, then she will say, "Yes, she would enjoy going out with you." Good luck!

Ask her to see a film with you during the day time and get a quick lunch afterwards, go skating, or to a concert, or something similar that you both enjoy- make it more about having fun than a date. You could even ask her to come out as part of a group a few times before you make it just the two of you - if its more about a fun time with a friend the pressure is off, you won't feel self-concious, and if she isn't interested in "that" way, your pride is still intact.

1.) Avoid cheesy lines. 2.) Have good personal hygiene. 3.) Avoid staring at her breasts. Looking her in the face helps. 4.) Show interest in HER. Do not come across as if you just ask every female out in hopes that one says yes. 5.) Give a sincere compliment. (Something besides, "Hey, nice [insert body part(s) here]!") Does this help?

any more info? cause its helpful but more detail?

Be a bit of a jerk, but don't over do it. Be a nice jerk

Hey baby you tired?... 'Cause you've been running in mind all day! Just kidding, what's the situation? Not enough info. (I'm always down for my 'Baggers'; frankly this is my speacialty (trust me)), Try again 'lil man, if you'd like a serious response to hard to say off blaa, blaa, blaa I need a girlfriend.

LISTENING TO EVERYTHING SHE SAYS!! a girl LOVES a boy that listens and understands whats she's goin through. but don't go up to her and be like well....anything thats bothering you that you want to tell me? cuz if you do that then she'll think that your weird! TRUST! just become good friends with her and she'll open up to you and be come comfortable with you and sooner or later she'll start to like you!

good hygeine a must. Find out what she is into. When you can find common ground with anyone you have a way in. It could be art, music etc. Don't be intimdated by her friends, confidence is a must but not overcocky. Make her laugh, with a tasteful joke. Don't make fun of people to make her laugh remember she may know them. Tell me what you know about the girl so far and I can tell you more if you want.

The key to getting a girlfriend is all on you, and whats in your heart, and you can't pretend to be someone your not, be honest with her and yourself. be interested in her, and her life, talk to her and ask questions. take interest in the things she likes, you may like them to. There is no real set agenda on getting a girlfriend, Man..be you. good luck.

Tell her you like her before you ask her out. It's not a yes or no question, so she can't turn you down. It's also sweeter to tell her you like her than just ask her out (because so many people dare people to ask other people out). And if she seems to like you back, or tells you she does, THEN ask her out.

Start with a simple non-date thing with other friends, if she doesn't give you the cold shoulder then drop a hint or just ask if you are not shy. If you start dating, try doing simple romantic things like flowers for no reason or calling just to say "I love you" Girls really go for that, even the ones who say they don't like that stuff, they still want it.

Act confident and appear interested in what she has to say, not just what you want to hear.

There are only two things you need to know...number 1- BE YOURSELF, what is the point in getting a girlfriend just for her to learn about the "real you" and then dump you if it doesn't work, and number 2- have confidence in yourself, people often say fake it if you don't have it but most can see through this, simply find something that gives you the confidence you need, if you focus a lot of the physical, work out a little, if the intellectual, study up some...improve yourself enough in your eyes to have real confidence and the rest is cake...good luck :)

Be yourself, don't try to impress a girl coz at times you may try to do so but your attempt you may fail by embarrassing yourself. Just chill out, relax, be more comforting, cater to her. Don't go overboard with that as some Females tend to take advantage of it. Other than that, just be open and not be shy. Try to show her a good time if possible, but most of all treat the girl you are after in all fairness :P (nice question, points for you!)

Maaan, every1 has to make it so hard. First of all, take your time man. Make the girl laugh and make sure that you are BOTH feel confortable around each other. Then, when you'll ask the girl, will make everything easier since the girl feels good around you. If you do not feel confortable around the girl, then she is most likely not right for you. But, i can be always wrong =)

Ask me! I'm so desperate I'll say yes to anyone :P O, and these specific hints from Antigone --- 1.) Avoid cheesy lines. 3.) Avoid staring at her breasts. Looking her in the face helps. --- I like that. Am I just weird?

G'day Future Pro, Thank you for your question. If you like her and you think that she likes you, why not ask her out and see how you go. Good luck and regards.

Imagine someone you think about so much and their words are wrapping around you, giving you warmth and comfort.

Here's a radical idea.... say "Fancy coming to see a movie?"

do it like napoleon did draw a picture with lots of shading on the upper lip.

I would flat out ask her. If you become friends first you run the risk of her not wanting to "ruin the friendship."

Time is too precious to waste. If you really want something, go for it !! NOW !!!!!

I'm an old-fashioned kinda guy, so I say bonk her over the head with a big club and drag her back to your cave.

"I really like you...and would like to get to know you better. Would you go have a coffee with me so we can talk?" "I see the 'Ocean's 13' movie is playing. I know you like Brad Pitt...I would like to take you to see the movie on Saturday?" I have to go to this boring wedding reception in 2 weeks....not looking forward to that! However, if you would go with me as my date that would make all the difference!" Please say you will go with me!"

First...sow a little seed...."can I buy you a coffee (ice cream/piece of pizza/pop). I'd like to spend a little time with you and get to know you a bit better". Then...at the end of this little interlude.."I have enjoyed talking with you..I like you...would you go dancing (for a drink/to a movie/to a Stones concert/to a party/)with me on Friday night?"

I wrote quite a bit. When I clicked preview I was surprised at just how much! Eye contact ALWAYS. If you are at a restaraunt, try not to show much interest in the waitress. Look at the menu when ordering, or at your date if you are saying "I will have the same thing she's having". Don't completely ignore her, or she will think you are rude. If it is a waiter then there is no problem. I notice a lot of you say to avoid staring at her breasts. This is easier if she is wearing modest clothing, but if she is not, it is almost like she wants you to look there >_> don't do it of course but I have to wonder... why? If you accidentally glance down there then there is one thing to save yourself if you are lucky: That's a nice necklace! Just make sure she is wearing one! Wear a sort of relaxed smile. If you are beaming she will think you are insane, and if you have no smile then she will think you are not enjoying yourself. Keep it in between. Relax! Do not constantly clear your throat. If you have a cold, wait to ask on a date! And if you have any nervous habits that you have trouble controlling, get control over them first! Don't pick your nose, don't bite your nails, don't mess with your hair, don't bite your lip...... If there is a fly buzzing around you, do not focus on the fly and trying to kill it.... Don't let your eyes wander anywhere. If she is talking about something and you are admiring the architecture of the building then that's not going to work. "I'm sorry, what was that?" If those words escape your mouth it is pretty much over. Pay attention and don't let your mind wander. Don't think about the football game next sunday, don't wonder when your new video game is going to arrive in the mail... think about what she is saying and what you are going to say next. Don't use bad language, and keep any jokes you make clean. Think about what you say before you say it. You have to think fast, you can't just sit there saying nothing while you think of what you are going to say, but try to anticipate what will happen after you say something, that might save you from saying something stupid.... Talking about your favorite music is great. Tell her how certain music makes you feel. Also discuss everything you like to do for fun. Talk about your life, but ask questions; you are curious about her and want to know about her. Ask her things that may even sound trivial, like favorite color or animal. Ask her when her birthday is, what's the one thing she has always wanted.... If she tells you she is struggling through something, then share any advice you may have, and tell her about your struggles so that she feels like she is not alone. Asking her what she likes to do is very important, you don't want all of your dates to be eating related. She may like video games, she may love to watch movies that you like, she might like to hunt... you never know untill you ask. Talk about where you stand politically. A relationship might not work out so well if one of you votes republican and the other votes democrat. You want to be able to agree on most things, so that you won't argue. Make sure you see eye-to-eye on issues such as abortion and capital punishment. That could lead to heated discussion. Not great..... Also if you have very diferent religious beliefs, you probably shouldn't continue to date. Make that one of the first things you talk about. Ask her for her e-mail, msn, phone number. And actually use these things! when you are ready to go, tell her what a great time you had, and that you would love to do it again. This is a good time to arrange a time for a new date. Don't drink alcohol, you may end up saying something that will hurt her feelings or something. When you ask her out, say, "Hey, what do you like to eat!" Don't say, "I think you're hot, let's go out sometime"; she will think you just like her for her body. Compliment her on her beauty, or how nice her hair looks. The best compliment is her eyes, I think. Make sure you let her know, "wow you look really nice!" But be careful or she will get the impression that you only think this when she is wearing make-up and dressed up nice. Maybe you could say, Wow you look beautiful as usual (She knows that you think she is beautiful ALL the time, not just when she puts on extra make-up) After the relationship gets a bit more serious, don't be afraid to let her know that you find her very attractive. Try some easy magic tricks at the diner table. Don't over do it; she didn't come for a show! Just do one trick you know, and there are books you can buy that will tell you how to do some. If there is one in which you have to touch her hand, that would be good if you are feeling confident. If you mess up the trick, then just laugh and don't get frustrated, she probably isn't going to want to watch you try it over and over again until you get it right! There is one trick where you pull out a lit match from under your lapel, try something subtle like that to light the candle if the restaraunt has them. If you stumble a bit on your words when you ask her out it is no big deal, just don't let it get to you! She will notice that you like her and that she has an effect on you. If eating isn't your thing then ask her to come over for homework help, if you are smart and she is not so smart in a particular subject. Make sure she knows your parents are at home or she might feel awkward. Obviously this is only helpful if you are in school. Take a shower right before you go on your date. Floss, comb your hair if necessary, brush your teeth and toungue (helps with breath), take a package of tic tacs but don't offer her one or let her know you have them. If you offer one to her then she will think that you are implying her breath is offensive to you... obviously you don't wanna do that! That's all I can think of for now but just so you know I have never asked anyone out before, this is just what I will try to do. It's pretty much common sense anyway!

Make yourself interesting by having goals in life, diverse hobbies and interests, being informed. Things that give you something to talk about and makes you more appealing. Make yourself bearable. Good hygiene, obviously. Have some nice clothes and keep them clean. Don't go overboard though. The biggest thing is learning when to listen and when to speak. And, by listen, I mean really listen. It's alot different when talking to a women than when talking to the guys. Here is a trick with listening to women.....if they tell you their problems they DO NOT want a solution. That's the point where you are supposed to say 'oh, that is too bad'...or relate something similar that happened to you....etc. Learn that, and you are in. Don't worry too much if it takes a while. For men, it only gets easier to meet women the older you get. Trust me.

Don't be too sweet, that sucks, may be try acting tough. If the girl's pretty then avoid saying things like "you're so pretty" she must've heard that a million times, instead say something about her intelligence, that usually works for me.

Think of some reason to talk to her. Borrow something, compliment her, ask about the assignment.

Talking is the key here, Firstly, you have to 'break the ice' so maybe a little humor or compliment will do the job, you will soon discover where she is at if you just talk to her.

Strick up a conversation about something you have in common in class. That'll make her think that you are interested in what she has to say. She may be insecure about talking to you. A few kind words can go a long way.

Talk to her. Just make ordinary conversation, smile and be friendly. Avoid so-called chat-up lines like the plague.

Hi & wave. Then wait to see if she waves back or grins or speaks. Good Luck!

Compliment her! You look pretty today, I like your shirt, your hair looks nice. Let her know you like her!

Are you flirting with me? Please don't do that because I might flirt back.. Good luck :)

Just ask her out. You have a 50% chance. If she says no at least you tried and you are one less "no" away from a yes.

try.."would you like to go out sometime?" it's simple...straight to the point...and usually works

hey, do you want to go out sometime?

would you like t go out with me,that would work.

By being funny. Just try if "social class" matters that much to her she's probably not worth it in the first place.

FINALLY - a question I can answer as an 'EXPERT" - because I did it!! Growing up in the extremely socially-conscious (ie they were insuuferable snobs) environment I did, I knew I was crazy to get interested in a certain young lady who - as even my own Mater said - was 'from a different world than ours, and not one that would have the least interest in you" I mooned around for a few weeks trying to feel better by being 'sensbile' about it. Then I got tired of being tired thinking about it and before I could lose my nerve the next time I saw her I walked right up to her and said "Would you think it terribly rude of me if I telephoned you sometime?" While she was startled - she was not displeased (you should have seem the face of her Mother though, who was standing beside her :) - and said yes. We enjoyed a few months of dating and then friendship before moving on to other things - but I still visit her every year and we sit in the literal Castle her husband owns and the fondness we have for each other is very real and pleasant as we compare whats happened to each of us in the previous twelve-month.... The biggest risk you run in your situation my young friend is not, as you suppose, being 'himiliated' in public or by the person in question - it is that if you DON'T ask her out, you will someday wake up and wish you had...but it will be far too late to do so then. Be the best you can be in life - and that includes being bold with your affections. I sincerely wish you luck, please feel free to return here after asking th eyoung lady to either praise me for my wisdom or vent your anger and dissapointment on an old idiot. Good luck : )

Be around her without stalking and she may surprise you by asking you. sexual equality is the norm nowadays.

Social status please! We are all equal in our own right! If a girl doesn't like you cause of some status rating then sweetie you can do w/out her!!

1) "justme" gave a wonderful answer. The first thing is, the risk that the person does not want to talk to you will always exist and you should not feel too bad about it. Some people will appreciate you. 2) However, in some extreme cases, a very low social status could provoke some unability to communicate. So those people should try to better their abilities by making some kind of training. But your question shows that you are able to communicate normally, making sensible sentences. It is already a beginning.

Just be brave and do it! If she does any of that then she is not even worth your time!

You should try and put your fear behind you, then try and make a simple conversation with her and then ask her out.

What would you say to any other person you would want to meet? Figure that out and that is what you say.

Have you ever seen Office Space? There's a line in their where the main character says something like "I'm going to be in the restaurant next door. Would you like to join me?" If she's interested in you it's a simple matter of just asking. The hard part is not knowing what her answer will be. Best of luck.

Make her laugh alot, be funny and unique, flirt and see where that leads

Be confident, I've never heard of someone getting slapped for asking for a date, but confidence is the key, remember that.

When I was dating, I was not the least bit interested in a free dinner. What I wanted was to be with a friend, or an interesting person I would like to get to know better. If you are just interested in bribing someone with a free dinner, you are not dating, you are fishing.

Just think, you get a free meal, but you have to sit there with someone you could care less about? c'mon... The dinner is not the big part of the date, it's the company! That's like saying the ring is the big part of the engagement...

Dinner isn't interesting to me, as a 'girl.' However, at this stage of my life (graduate school), I'd be a lot more likely to accept free dinner! I would rather DO something, especially early on in a relationship. Putt-putt is always cool, so is bowling. Movies are also a bad idea until later.

By asking her out. It takes confidence, and girls sometimes like that. But with girls you never know which ones goin to want which. In any case its best just to get it done and over with. Also you have to realize that there are more than one girl out there so dont feel heart broken if she says no.

As long as you aren't trying to play her, just be yourself, honest, and try to be confident (though that's not very easy when you care). It's the people who don't care who are often the most confident precisely because it doesn't really matter to them. Any girl worth dating who sees a guy making an honest effort should respond if she is at all interested. It's probably not a very popular opinion, but I think an honest guy who completely screws up asking a girl out is probably fine so long as he is not trying to dupe her. The right girl will make sense of it all and probably just think you are cute for being a total spaz.

Walk up to her and say 'hey I like you - would you like to go out with me'? Just be cool and casual and don't sweat the small stuff :)

Stick a note in her school bag?

Just relax...start a conversation with her and then ask her if she might like to go on a date with you sometime. Just be yourself...and SMILE! :))

I REALLY LIKE YOU YOU LOOK REALLY NICE AND I WAS JUST WONDERING IF YOU WOULD GO OUT WITH ME?

Hello, I like you. Would you like to go out with me?

Just relax...be yourself and ask her if she would like to go out with you sometime.

Walk up and demand that she change that awful color she's wearing because you would like to go to the nearest SUubway and buy her a bag of sun chips!!!!!

Just be your self.

Just tell her you think the two of you could have fun together and then ask her out.

Straight forward has always worked for me but dont pressure for an answer right away , you might catch her offgaurd.

carrier pigeon?

just be your self if she dosnt like it then shes not worth it

Just ask her. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Just be relaxed, and confident. That's all you'll need.

WELL BEING A GIRL...I WOULD LIKE IT IF THE GUY COMES TO ME LOOKING NICE,CLEAN AND SMELLING GOOD:) ALSO JUST SAY TO HER: I WOULD LIKE TO TAKE YOU OUT TO.......DO YOU WANT TO COME WITH ME..ALSO MAKE A JOKE ABOUT TOO...LIKE SAY: I KNWO YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME--JUST FACE THE FACT THAT YOU CAN'T RESIST ME...SOMETHING LIKE THAT.

i dont realy know i need help with this too sry

Hey girl. you ticklish?

jus be cool and dont be nervous or do anythin weird....its better if you go up to the girl because most girls i no would feel nasty rejecting i guy when they face to face with him.

My advice is to think out well before hand where you want to ask her out too, check movie times if its the movies, etc. Then simply try to get into a conversation with her. When you're ready to ask her (don't take too long cause you may miss your chance if she has to go) ease into it slowly. Just sort of say, 'GIRL, can i ask you something?' (replacing GIRL with her name). When she says yes, simply ask her if she wants to go wherever you want to ask her out to. Make sure she knows its a date: 'GIRL, do you want to go to the movies with me? You know, like on a date?' There you go, good luck :)

If you had a friend who was a girl, and you weren't interested in her romantically... how would you ask her if she wanted to go grab a bite to eat, get a cup of coffee, go see a movie? Ask like that. :-)

Ask her if she wants to hang out. It's that simple lol

Hey, do you want to go __________?

Ask her to go out to some place you know she'd be interested in going to. If she's into Chinese food, ask her to go to Panda Express. She wont turn you down because she wants her free Chinese food, and that's your chance to have her get to know what an awesome guy you are, and want to go out again.

Would you like to go xxxxx? Where xxxxx is "to see a movie", "for a pizza", "bowling", "to the game with me", etc. Not that hard... ;-)

The words you use don't really matter just as long as you speak with confidence and you stay true to yourself...

G'day Koolxxx, Thank you for your question. Just be yourself and ask her if she'd like to go to a movie or for coffee or dinner or whatever. Don't stress out about it. Regards

Me-You-Bedroom....jk.... Just ask her if she wants to grab a coffee or a bite to eat. Whaddya got to lose?

Just say,"Hey, the word of the day is legs. Do you want to spread the word?"

It doesn't really matter. Just be yourself and dont start the sentence with "Dont tell my wife I said this..." and you should be fine!

just say what comes into your head right then and there.

Get over it and ASK HER. I mean.. whats the worst she could do? "Oh my gosh you asked me out. you are so gross! I am never going to talk to you again!" Im sure she would really do that. And IF she did.. Is that even a girl you would want to date in the first place?

Call her up and ask her, or write a letter, all you she can do is say no, so what, more fish out there in the sea, dont be scard of rejection we all been there oneway or the other.

Rejection goes with the territory of being a guy. There will always be people who reject you, so just face that fact and go for what you want.

You get over it. You cant sit by and play the what if game for the rest of your life. Go for it and give it your best. Go for it, all you have to loose is just a little bit of time.

Be yourself and get past any shy or awkward feels you may have. Women/Girls like confindence. I've had much better luck in the past (I'm 37) when I'm just much more out going and just seem more friendly and interested in what they're doing and thinking.

I'm 17, and a girl. I think the best thing to do is work your way as a flirty friend.. Then eventually telling her that you like her, or asking her out . Which should be easier after becoming friends.. which isn't hard to get out of the "friends zone". As it seems. The most sweetest hing you could do.. if you know the girl well, even if you don't at all.. is to just walk up to her and tell her how nice she looks. Gives a nice self esteem boost.

you kind of have it backwards don't you-if you haven't been out with her how can she be your girlfriend?

How to Ask out a Girl at School So there's this girl you like, but you want to make sure they like you first..... [edit] StepsEstablish a more-than-just-friends relationship. Start by asking her for something to play on, like if you are in her class, ask her for a pencil or eraser. If she's slightly interested, she might play about, teasing you for it. Don't worry, it's not that she doesn't like you. She expects you to play along, so maybe walk off in mock sulk, don't do it too heavily though. She might start to think you are weird if you do. If she comes by you and asks you who you like, you know you are on the right track. They are probably just as nervous as you, so they want to get that type of approach as well. This probably means that they like you, and your job just got much easier. Compliment her, but be careful. Unless they are desperate, they might think you are desperate or making something too obvious. So maybe tell her you like her new hairstyle but then go behind her and mess around with it, spice it up. She'll like your courage to go play about with her hair but make sure she doesn't have dandruff or lice because although you might not be too bothered, she will get embarrassed and scared to go near you. Also, don't lay it on like you've seen in the movies: "I like your handbag.". No guy, in school, will honestly care about a handbag. Something you might truly like you can compliment on. Start a ball game (not literally). Be a little far away and look at her, admire her. She'll catch your gaze and look at you. Look away suddenly but keep an eye out for her looking back at you. If she is, get up and walk past her, possibly giving her a little smile as you go. If she isn't then if you play football or basketball you might want a gang of guys ready to shout "Nice one"s or stuff like that. She'll give you a look. Then follow above. Have chats with her. Ask her if she has any pets and find out some interesting things. Make sure she knows you inside out as well. Move in closer, be alone and look down. Look up at her eyes, look lost in her world for a second, and then say "I,(pause),like you. So...(cough)..Will you go out with me" While you say this look down. Look up when you say me and smile questioningly. If that isn't your style, there is another way to ask a girl out. All you have to do is walk up (make sure she's alone), and ask her to go out with you in a confident (but relaxed!) manner. Don't try too hard, girls aren't stupid, they can tell when you get desperate. Be relaxed and confident in yourself. Don't just become friends with her, become friends with all of her friends, as relationships are made and broken on her friends opinions. If she says no she means NO. Just back off for awhile, leave her to cool down, but don't give up complete hope. Be confident, not cocky. The difference is there, and very noticeable for girls. Make jokes and be self-confident; women love it when men make them laugh. When the time comes to ask her out, wait for the opportune moment. Trust your instincts; they will tell you when the time is right. As mentioned earlier, it's probably best not to do it in front of her friends or in front of your friends. It's easier for both of you if you are alone. If she says "I'll think about it" it's not a good sign- although she could just be nervous, or caught up in the moment, and she's being careful not to make a stupid mistake. Don't bug her about it, let it go a few days- if she doesnt bring it up again, it's a no. Don't ask her out as a dare, or as a joke- this can really hurt a girl's feelings. Be sure that you are doing it because you want to, if you don't you could really become known as a jerk. If You See Any Facial Expressions Like An Eye Raise Make Sure You Say, "Its Okay If You Say No" [edit] TipsDon't come on too full or it'll freak her out. Don't treat her like she's desperate, or like she'd do anything for you. Act like you really think you have to work for her to your friends. They might do some secret hinting. Look out for her as well as yourself, defending her is a good way of hinting at your interest while also being a decent person as a whole. Make one of your friends jokingly insult her and then go and defend her. It really works if its your best friend. It shows your willing to stand up to him for her. Give her time to think it out and let her think that you really like her. If you want to make her curious, send her love notes in her locker. Remember you want to be mysterious, give hints in your letter, but don't tell her. [edit] WarningsMake sure she hasn't got a boyfriend. (especially if he is bigger than you) Don't ask her in front of friends, especially if she is shy. Don't tell the world if she's not ready. She might have some things she has to tie up first. Don't ask super invasive questions about her. Be nice, not a stalker. If you want to ask a girl out to a dance, disco etc and she says no, do not immedieately go and ask someone else out. This will lower your social levels and girls will not want to go out with you because they will think you are desparate. Source:Wikihow

what's u people's problems, u wimps, go and ask her! god! it's not like it'll be the end of the world...

He should remind himself that Babe Ruth was the Home Run King for a long time, but that what most people don't remember is that he was also the all time strikeout king. He just swung more often.

We have the same problem my friend. do you go to the same school as her?

like taking off a band-aid. do it. quick. even if she says "no" you'll be on her mind all day and maybe the idea will sound good. odds are she'll say yes though. we're not THAT mean and scary.

walk up to her and say "hey (insert name here) want to go out with me?" I know, its never that easy, never has been, but I always end up saying something else, and every time i wish i would have just said "will you go out with me"

just say to her "will you go out with me" it has to be this simple

if she has an email address ask her out on the internet but of course the best response is to walk up to her and ask her out if she says no don't take it as a rejection she might be with someone else or she isn't interested which will be better for you nothing worse than going on a date with someone who doesn't want to be with you quite boring. You can ask someone else later. Every rejection in life is an open door somewhere else.

You could be a dork and do the old "Do want to go on a date with me? Check Yes or No?" Good Ice Breaker, but would depend on the girl's personality. If you only know her for her looks and how she carries herself, tell her that she caught your eye and ask her if she would like to have ice cream, or lunch sometime. Something light and not too long so she won't feel trapped for 3-5 hours.