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Probably not, at least for a good while, but it takes two to tango, as the old saying goes. From the results, it sounds like your long-term boyfriend was going to find someone else sooner or later. Honestly, sooner is better than later. At least you can cut your losses and move on. The pain of losing both the boyfriend AND the person you perceived as 'best friend', though, is very difficult. I'm sure you feel extremely betrayed and angry and I feel bad for you. The only thing to do, though, is to hold your head up high and conduct yourself with pride and dignity. Don't give either a second glance backwards because neither is worth it. Just move on, as hard as it is, and be thankful that you discovered what losers they BOTH were. Make a fresh start. I know it sounds easy and I know it's not, but it's just life, my friend. You play the hand you're dealt. The defining factor is how you choose to proceed. My best advice is to fold that particular hand, try to be upbeat, don't act bitter, at least in public, and you'll come out on top and be a better person for it. They deserve each other, don't they? You deserve better, don't you? Thank your lucky stars and move onwards and upwards.
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I like what Taylor said. Have you seen them together or are you still talking to one of them? And as far as this question goes, you are still carrying a grudge. The taking part is over with and you lost your boyfriend, but It doesn't sound like your best friend was a friend at all. How did you let it happen? If you're still angry than get a new best friend, but if your not and it doesn't bother you to see your lost boyfriend ooh it would be hard to see them together. I've always been told to forgive people (smile & be nice when you see them), but you may not have to spend time with them. You know?
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+'s to both answers before mine. Forgiving, they say, is for your benefit, not theirs. They might not even care whether you hold a grudge or not. But holding on to resentment only eats away at you, and that's the reason for forgiveness. Forgiveness is NOT dismissing what someone did, or saying it's OK, or even liking them again. Forgiveness is only giving up on your need to be angry about it, hurt them back, or get any kind of revenge. That's all. And it takes time to get to that point. I'm sorry for what's happened to you.
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Gosh it would be next to impossible but I would have to. Not for them but for myself. And, if they are still together I would understand that to be they are meant for one another. As much as I would want to rip her fingernails off with pliers and dip her hands in battery acid I would have to forgive her. (sorry, I went a little over board there lol)
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