No - afraid I'd be the fourth!

nope. i wouldnt do it because i would think he was irresponsible. also, three children is alot...they would (or should) take up most of his time...just not my thing.

Hell no!! His child support alone would be astronomical!

i'm dating a man with 3 kids by 2 different women. its not easy, as i dont see him at all at weekends. there is a deep rooted trust issue to, as he doesn't trust himself, he told me this. he had a one night stand while his previous girlfriend was 3 months pregnant with their first child. not good - there are gremlins bubbling under the surface.

I, personally, would not because I like to start fresh, on a clean plate, from ground up. I do not see anything against that though.

If I saw potential for love, then I'd have no problem with it.

No way. Relationships are complicated enough sometimes without having to worry about someone's baby's momma not liking me or whatever.

Maybe, but only if I would definitely be in charge of the birth control.

Yes I would.....and I am!!! I have been for almost a year, best relationship I have been in by far. I think we need to remember that we all have made bad choices--some more apparent then others. Would you want someone to judge you soley off some of the choices you have made? Handle every situation differently:) My man is very successful and takes cares of all three of his boys, one actually lives with him now!!!!

Hell no!! Do you want to be Baby Mama #4? Please you have to ask yourself wht kind of values does he have? Your goning to have to deal with 3 other women that are constantly in his life.And I have a friend who always lets her daughters father hit it even when she's involved with other people. She says they have a eternal connection, so why not? NOt to mention the child support. Will there be any left for you?

It does take a rocket scientist to conclude that this man is not faithful. He sounds like a rabbit in heat. You can do better.

Casually date maybe - but I'd be put off a serious relationship with someone who already had that many commitments he should be concentrating on.

Only if they were all married and lived in another country

Only if he was independently wealthy and his kids were all grown and independent! lol Relationships are complicated enough no need to add fuel to the fire.

Three children with one woman, yes. Three children with two or three women, sounds like he might be emotionally unstable.

Oh, I think not. I would encourage him to concentrate his energies raising his three kids. He sounds like someone who needs to grow up himself.

that depends... are they all the same age? haha my brother has two 7y/o's by two different women. but yes i would consider it if he was being responsible about being a dad to them...

yes because I have 3 children by 3 different men ! I always judged people and now I realize Life happens and never say never !

It all depends on whether or not he takes care of his children. It one thing to have 3 children and it's another to be a dead beat dad.

Been down that road. Married a man with multiple children and baby momma's. As time progressed I found out he was still having babies during our marriage. I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT THE MARRIAGE IS SO OVER NOW. Anyone considering it I would say RUN!

How funny, I have found myself asking this same exact question. I dated this man before for about four years and have recently reaquianted w/him. He now has three children w/three different women!! I still have feelings for him but question my sanity about reconsidering a second chance w/him. Is there anyone who may have a comment on this situation? What do you think, have I lost all of my senses?

I have 3 children from two diffrent man.I will have a nother one in two months from a nother man.None of the fathers care for theyr children.I am married sence 7 years but never been living with my husband.I live in Switzerland and he lives in the united states.My first babys Father desidet not to be with me when I was 6 months pregnant tha time he allready had 4 children.Now my first babys father have 6 children and is with non of theyr babys mama. He never cared for his Daughter or gave any money for her. Later I got married and this man as well never cares or pays for his cildren.So I was looking for someone else to be with.A man that have 2 children from one woman.Now I got to know that he is cheating on me with that baby mama.So again I am pregnant but have no man.My personal opinion is,guys that have babys all over are not mentaly stable and will always cheat.So its better not to be with a man that have loths of children with diffrent mothers.

I am a guy. I have 3 kids to 3 different women. I take care of all 3. one lives far away so i dont see him that much, the other two are around here and i do see them atleast once every two weeks. I get along with all 3 of the women. I cant remember the last time I as much as argued with any of them. I do feel bad for my current girlfriend even though she seems ok by it and took wonderfully to my kids and weve been together for about 2 years. To this day i cant believe i have 3 kids to 3 different women. I feel like such a bum about it. a few things i can say is that i never cheated on any of them. I work hard, i do well for myself, i treat my kids good, and i do what i can to be somewhat friends with my kids mothers. If you would have told me 15 years ago that this is where i would be in life i would have never believed it, im ashamed. one thing for sure is that for my girlfriends benefit i dont screw up whatsoever as far as goin out drinkin with my buddies all the time, cheating, or getting "too" friendly with my kids mothers. i do a few little extras for my girlfriend to make sure she feels secure with me and never once gave her a reason not to trust me. with that said, i would like to hear some honest comments or questions from someone. i'd be happy to answer

no,hes a sperm donar,some are like that only good for that one thing.