What negative qualities prevent you from being a better partner?
by 
Jay Was Here - AYPWIP
ANSWERS: 14
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I expect too much.
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I think its that I am very independant and I get frustrated easily with someone trying to do things for me as if I am a weak little girl: )
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I sometimes get a little too self-focused. I'm trying to correct that problem though!
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mental shyness.
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I'm argumentative :(
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I am an only child and sometimes have a hard time with compromise.
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I'm kinda lazy, and lack the need to seek adventure, I prefer to stay close to home, and not climb hills, and jump out of airplanes, etc.
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I have to analyze everything when a plan is being formed. I lack trust in other's abilities. I do not listen very well. I generally have an "I'll do it myself" attitude because no one else is "fast" enough. I'm just generally a "holier than thou" sh%$head, even though I know that I am not better than anyone else. However, I never belch, release unsolicited flatus, steal, drink ALL of your beer, walk in a door in FRONT of a lady. I do not require more than 10% of the rights to the remote control and I am potty trained. I am romantic and considerate. I cook and I do dishes. I ain't a skeert of sewing, neither. Hopefully, these last things outweigh the bad.
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I say things before I think and sometimes they are hurtful things. I do try very hard to do better. I think it's working.
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being selfish
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Being too self conscious, and over analyzing everything.
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Jealousy,being to self concious, and probably think the worst of things all the time
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Jealousy,being to self concious, and probably think the worst of things all the time
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I am sure that there are many things that I need to work on, but right now, I believe my biggest issue is not taking care of myself emotionally. I don't need a lot of 'alone time', but I do need some. I'm very good at asserting myself when it comes to other peoples needs, but not so much with my own. It usually resurfaces as a resentment and that's not fair to my husband. Poor guy gets blind-sided with my moods! LOL! But seriously, it's not funny... :))
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