Single guys: when you first meet an attractive woman do you mentally picture what she would be like in bed? truthful answers only please. Am just curious to know
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Little_Piggy
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A.) I don't think this activity is specific to single men... it's not like a wife takes away male fantasy... B.) I'm gay, so I fantasize about sex with some guys I meet...
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Honestly, no I don't. I actually do need to know what someone is like before I can feel remotely attracted to them, I know that some people find that difficult to understand. Of course, I can appreciate someone's good looks - but you said attraction, and for me this is deeper than good looks. When I meet a women who I am attracted to, my imagination is set loose - especially if that attraction is mutual. :-)
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yes I personally picture how she is going to look bent over the bed, also I imagine how she will look while giving head.You wanted honesty so there it is.
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from my husband: he says he wonders what their pubic hair is like (trimmed/natural, etc)
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What! Noooo! We're not all that shallow. I just picture them naked.
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Truthfully speaking I would be imagining her in bed with me,and the fun that it could be.Humans are sexual beings and it would only be natural to think of such things.
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No. I need to get to know them first, see if I like their personality. After all, personality transfers to the bed too. Doesn't mean I don't look at her initially and say "Damn she's hot".
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SERIOUSLY, I think about how a conversation would go down between me and her, personality and all that. But the sex thing follows RIGHT AFTERWARDS :)
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I do sometimes, but not right away, and not with everybody that I think is attractive. Usually something about their personality has to also catch my eye. Sounds like I'm in the minority on this one.
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Hell no that comes after I am drunker.
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My brian says maybe but my penis says hell yeah ;)
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In bed? No it's gotta be done there and then (mentally of course)...lol
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That's o.k, because the women are also wondering if you guys will measure up.
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My honest answer is absolutely not! Personally, I want to know what she is like, her intelligence levels, wit, charm, life goals, etc. Perhaps this all sounds really corny, but I want to know her first. Sex and sexuality is very important of course, but I find it comes from getting to know a person. Any girl can go out and look slutty, and that may spawn thoughts such as "what is she like in bed?", but beyond that obvious "look like a slut" scenario --- I really dont think guys think like that. p.s. I am 40year old guy, so I have a fair amount of experience here.
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