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The saying is "be careful what you wish for, you just may get it". You screwed up and now you have to face the consequences of you pushing him away. He clearly is so hurt by what you have done that he closed his heart to you completely. I think you should just let him go. If you and he belong together, then he will return to you.
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Oh dear thats terrible looks like he doesnt want to get hurt again,why did it take you 3 weeks to realise,it would of took me aday :( I dont know about pursuing it maybe you should try and explain to him what a mistake you have made and tell him hes the one,thats all you can do ,good luck
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My girlfriend did the exact same thing to me. Said "She needed space" that really hurts I did what I could to talk with her and after one day contacted her again we talked and she was ok. We figured out why she felt that way. - What I can say is if he tried doing this at first and you did not put effort to fix it. Now 3 weeks later you want to It is going to be really, really hard for him to get over that feeling. I am talking about months maybe. Sorry it happened only time will tell what will happen. I would suggest not to try to hard or get your hopes up about pursuing him. Now its really up to him what happens maybe he needs to recognize how he really felt about you and if those feels are still there he will come back. - There is always hope but don't put to much on it.
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I know how you feel, I did the exact same thing. It bites. I'm sorry.. I have no advice though.
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My ex recently ended the relationship for the same reasons and I'm in hell at the moment. In fact, I'm not sure I'd even trust her if she came back. However, if she did, this is what I'd tell her (and therefore, my advice to you): 1. Apologize 2. Share everything that you can about where your mind was and where it is now. 3. Say that you're willing to give him the space to heal and figure out what he wants to do next. 4. Don't see anyone (casual or otherwise while you wait) 5. Listen and take in everything that he has to say if he wants to talk 6. Take the time to think through what issues you may have had that caused you to let go of someone you thought was "the one" 7. Don't pester him in the meantime, don't manipulate or guilt him into getting back together. 8. Prepare yourself/move on/stay busy in case he says he doesn't want to get back together now or possibly forever More than likely he once thought (any may still think) the that you are also "the one" - but rejection is a bloody blow to ego, pride, the heart, the mind, etc.
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