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Yes. Drinking is not an excuse for cheating. Tell him and deal with the consequences, whatever they may be. Hopefully you've learned your lesson.
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A few kisses wont shatter his world but, the fact you did this might shatter his trust for you.....
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It sounds to me as though you may be feeling guilty now because stopping drinking has cleared your head and made you realise you want him. If you only kissed some guys, I don't think he should really mind that much. If you think it would hurt him to tell him, then maybe your guilt is a price you can pay to stop him from feeling hurt.
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I need to ask this......were you with him at the bar/club/house when you were drunk and kissed the other guys, or would this have happened BEFORE you became his GF? If this happened before, my thoughts are that it is the past....let the past be the past, but tell him if you want to. HOWEVER, if you were dating him but not present with him when you became drunk and did silly things, I would fess up, and keep the communication open. I don't know how old you are, but if your a young adult (20something to 25) you should know that drinking and getting drunk can lead to bad things happening, willingly or not. If your a teenager, then all I have to say is learn from your mistakes, quickly! Good Luck! I'm hoping for the best for you.
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Drinking is no excuse! Tell him EVERYTHING. If he doesn't dump you, he most certenly won't trust you. You will then have to EARN his trust back. Will take years!
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