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  • Only if both marriages ended in the natural and timely death of the spouse, and the person remained respectful and loving towards both previous partners.
  • No. Too many ghosts and shadows in their past. It would take me a lifetime to sort it all out and i do not have that much time left.
  • Not if they were both divorces. Meaning if i was an outsider i would not marry into my family. All my siblings have been married AND divorced at least 3 times, one 4.
  • Probably not, but if they lost their spouse because of death, I would consider it. I would feel as though there is someone better than me or they are not paying attention to me but merely using me.
  • Well i will be honest lets say both the people they were married to were alive and well.It would make me wonder you know why the first marriage ended and why the second marriage ended it would make me very wary about marrying the person i would date the person but i would have to be dating them a really long time before i married them taking into cosideration there track record of marriages
  • Absolutely not. If I dated them, it would remain casual.
  • What about a widower? It would depend upon the circumstances of his no longer being married. I think setting up rules in advance of being confronted with the situation might cut you off from meeting the guy/gal of your dreams. Each situation is different. :)
  • My wife and I stood for a couple who got married back in 1992 or so, his first her fourth; neither the military chaplian, nor civilian clergy would touch that one, but we felt it was right and went with them for the JP event, their daughter from her second husband told her own father that Xxxxx was more her "Dad" than he, any way, some people take awhile to learn. They have outlasted a lot of first and second marriages, so , I don't think previous mistakes is a valid predictor. Depends on the individual(s) and their commitment.

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