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Because they didn't mean it positively. Because you liked the way you were before and didn't realize you'd changed that much, if at all. Because they were disappointed in you for making the change and you don't want to feel that disappointment.
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Possibly because it is upsetting when someone else feels they have the right to judge you and your behavior then label you as being this that or the next thing..as if they somehow know more about you than what you do. Just my thoughts on it and not saying that is the cause :)
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