When someone realises a relationship is over, what keeps them from ending it and would it be a good idea to just end it and not think about it?
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There are many reasons that keep someone from ending it. In my own personal life the biggest was fear of not being able to find someone else and feeling it's better to try and hold on to a relationship that makes me miserable than to let go and be alone. It came to a point eventually in 2 of my 3 relationships that I realized that was stupid and I ended both of them. One because the woman I was married to and who was supposed to love and cherish me cheated on me in addition to constantly putting me down. The second I ended after she got me fired from my second job in the 4 years we were together because she couldn't deal with me having female friends and swore I was screwing someone at each job and called up cursing them out. The thrid relationship which was my greatest ended not by my choice but at the hands of the 3 little bastards that brutally raped and beat her to death. Yes I do agree it is bettter to accept the fact it is over amnd try and do your best to move on without thinking too much about it
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I think fear is what keeps people hanging on to relationships..fear of being alone. But the honorable and fair thing to do is to end it to free yourself and the other person to move on...because if you hang on, you are perpetrating a fraud on the other person. That is not an honorable thing to do to someone you used to love! :)
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