ANSWERS: 6
  • If you didn't have a discussion about exclusivity, than I don't think you need to "confess" anything. But the way you say "confess" -- it's like you think you did something wrong -- did you? I think it's only wrong if #1 and you had an agreement about being exclusive, but you saw #2 anyway. That's my opinion.
  • Not unless you want to lose the guy your wanting to get serious about. Your past is your past just as his is his what you do up until you start getting serious is your business. Unless you contracted an STD, I wouldn't reccommend it because then he may think he needs to even the score & cheat on you. Personally, I've been there before & the best advice I can tell you is keep it to your self(until you get married) but you haven't been dating very long anyway.
  • You did what? You most definitly need to be honest with the guy you want to be with. If not when he finds out, and he will, he's going to lose all trust in you if you don't tell him yourself before things get serious. If he walks away it's no big loss for either of since there is no deep relationship or feelings yet.
  • If you guys didn't discuss just dating each other (that means either one of the guys)then you have nothing to "confess" You may feel guilty in your head, but why risk spoiling something that could turn out good. You should bring up the issue of exclusivity with #1 for future purpose, if you feel that stongly about it.
  • Well the thing is, if he says, "OMGOMGOMG you had sex with whoo!?" He is not worth it. He needs to figure out that you are far past a virgin. Hell guys like having better relations with a non-virgin!
  • well if you're just "dating" and not being exclusive then he should understand. If you were "two timing" then it's a different story.

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