This is all so frustrating. I literally paid everything I had to the point I lost my home, my ca, and yes MY JOB. All because she insisted on making my life as miserable as humanly possible. SHE DIVORCED ME because I wouldn't quit my job and move from dallas to central Pennsylvania and take a job with her father?! Once she divorced me, she claimed she didn't want my money and that she would never take my kids away from me! Guess what, she wanted all of my money, and decided to take my kids from their loving father without any plan other me buying a plane ticket from Dallas to Harrisburg, on Saturday morning because after work at six on Friday there are NO flogs to Harrisburg. Then on Saturday I have to get the rental car, buy car seats, then get the children who reside an hour and a half from the airport. Assuming their mother allows me, she's been known to change her mind on a whm. At this point it is about 8 pm on sat. We go to Chuck-e-cheese, another hour and a half away and then go back to the hotel where I needed cribs for them to sleep. The next morning we get up at 330 am and begin driving the hour and a half to drop them off, then another hour and a half to get back to the airport. Catch my flight all so I can get back In time to be at work at 7 am on Monday so I can ensure I stay out of jail by paying the $1400 per month in child support, not to mention the $1500 minimum I paid to see them for a couple of hours. She wanted a baby, we had twins, I had a great job to support them, so I was ok with it. Guess what when she's not happy you lose everything you've ever worked for your entire life. I am in tears writing this and seeing the ignorant comments posted by women on here. It makes me sick. Not only do you lose all financial security bc she wasn't happy you lose all dignity and self respect because now no matter what you are branded as a dead beat dad, bc there is no way a man can go from getting by on his paycheck to giving 75% to his ex wife for her support and the child support and forget about seeing your kids, no ones for that even, so your ex wife uses that in court to claim you don't care about your kids and she should be free to take them wherever she wants. You have to beg you sister in law for some of the hazard pay your brother is getting from the Army because he is in Afghanistan fighting for my "freedom" which is non-existent as I will be an indentured servant for the next 23 years. All because she wasnt happy I will never again enjoy freedom as a free man. Your sister in law wires you the money as quickly as she can so it will get there in time for you to write a check in court to the lawyer you are paying to sue you and take everything you have. Plus you have to pay the lawyers bill directly this time because your exwife would not give you a few days to try and come up with the money. All bc she needs as many problems as she can get out of you in contempt so she can take your kids never for you to see them again, and then claim I am the one who doesn't want to take responsibility to be a part of my children's lives. And so on, and on, and on, and on, and on... It gets more ugly in the court room where the disgusting judge acts like a mix between judge Judy and a Nazi Gestapo Police Officer. Threatening to put my mother in jail for shaking her head silently as he read his decision to take even more of what I had and force the complete loss of my babies to the pathological liar that will raise them. And all because she wasnt happy, NOT BECAUSE I HAD SEX. I love my babies, and though I regret having sex with that devil of a person, I wouldn't take them away any day. I just want my freedom back.!