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First of all, I'm sure you are, but you should be proud of your boyfriend. Looking at your current "situation", he probably had a LOT of temptation but stuck to his belief, which is a hard thing to do, especially a guy in this story. Second, do "other things". There's nothing wrong with making out half-clothed.
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You need to chill out. If you really want to be with him then you need to learn a little self-control and discipline just like he has. This isn't any easier for him and if you're harping on it you're going to make it worse. Look at it this way without the sex you two get to learn all about each other first without all the complications sex can bring with it. There's also other things you can do to relieve that tension.
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get him so excited that HE can't stand it
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DO the right thing, wait until marriage. YOu need to try and find your inner strength instead of succumbing to your weaknesses. If he is that strong, you should be too if you really want to be with him. If not, go find a weaker and less moral boyfriend and be weak together.
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If you really want it, and he wants it (but only once you two are married) then... GET MARRIED!!
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Let him know how you feel and if he's not prepared to consider your feelings and your needs and you are unable to comfortably accept his.. then maybe you need to re-consider your choice in becoming his life partner. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh and I don't mean it to, but I know a lot of people who had rules and beliefs like this put to them prior to marriage and then found themselves suffering through a thousand more after the marriage, where once again, their feelings were unable to be considered. I wish you well :)
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WAIT! Get a toy! He seems to be a good man Why mess this up? There are not many men out here like him any other man would of done the do and left you by now. This man wants to marrie you all you can do is wait take a Hot bath a Cool shower and just think he will be ROCKING your world real soon!!! (sak)
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I'd suggest getting him to talk to a good therapist. I understand that in America, some people might think this sort of thing is healthy, but really it isn't and it points to a situation that will potentially cause nothing but trouble for both of you later on. Sex is healthy and natural, since you are both adults and in a commited relationship, there really is no good reason for this sort of thing.
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You can get satisfied in many different ways without penetration... Do you guys have oral sex? Or is he waiting to do that as well??
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Haha. Good for him!! I went through that too. Wait. It's worth it.
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From what I read, you're a Christian -- so, while I am an atheist, from what I understand, the main thing to follow in the bible is the Ten Commandments, right? It doesn't make sense to me to follow everything else because the rest is mostly laws from back then, not rules from the Christian god, and most of them would be grossly out of place in today's society -- for an example, if stoned a man to death for denying your religion, you'd end up in jail for a long time. And in the 10 Commandments, it doesn't say anywhere to not have sex before marriage. I am not trying to go against your beliefs -- I just think that a lot of things in there should be taken with a grain of salt and thought through before you decide to use them as rules for your own life. That aside -- well, you could either get a sex toy for yourself, or you could talk to your boyfriend about your beliefs and whether he has any ideas as to what to do... it may be that you'll need to break up if you can't work something out. Or I guess, you could just wait it out...
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ask you even have marriage on your mind...do you? do you value the same things he does? if you dont, you should move on
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In a way he is right to wait till you get married ,beause sex is not everything in life at this moments,you can enjoy later the same thing so why you are giving the first priority on sex.
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