My husband is muslim, I am not. He would prefer me to wear the muslim uniform and I choose not to. My reason of course is that I am not muslim and we do not live in a muslim country (USA) so it is not an issue with our culture/society. Instead I just wear pants and shirts that cover my boobs fully and that are not tank tops. He does get upset sometimes when other guys check me out (because I am attractive, so it happens), but its okay. He appreciates the fact that I am still trying to cover up and not draw attention to myself. :)

It depends. One reason may be it's part of a new notion of his to see you in something new or a more appealing way - in his eyes. No harm in just trying it out unless it's a serious distasteful outfit. Your call to argue over it but it shouldn't turn into a blown out battle.

Of course your spouse should be mad if they aren't allowed to humiliate you. You have no right to feel comfortable. The only thing that matters is their happiness. Now that you have married, you are no longer a human being with feelings. Seriously, did you even read your question? I mean this is in the most helpful way, but grow a spine and stand up for yourself.

It really depends on what he is asking me to wear and where he wants me to wear it. For example, if they made sexy lingerie in my size I would have no problem wearing it for him at home but am unlikely to wear it under a business suit for work. If he wanted me to dress as up for a bedroom fantasy I would consider it. If he asked me to wear something that I felt uncomfortable in outside the home I would have to say No!

what in the bedroom? as long as its not outragious then i would consider it, im very self conscious so being uncomfortable sometimes is a way of life, BUT if its that bad i will turn him down, and no way would he be mad, he understands thats what being a good partner is. i do ask what he finks of an outfit when we go out like 'which looks better?' and i take what he says as good advice - most of the time lol but i would never allow him to dictate what i wear in public, unless i looked really awful lol

I'll break down your Q seeing as there are 3 questions... 1. To a certain extent. I'm a pretty independent gal but am willing to try SOME things, such as in the bedroom, if he suggests it and it doesn't make me feel extremely uncomfortable. Although I cannot imagine what THAT would be since pretty much all he could ask me to wear would be some type of clothing and if it's in the bedroom, chances are, it's not staying on too long! :) Ooooo, creepy thought: if he asked me to wear a saddle, yes, I would have to definitely say no. ;)~ If it is something outside of the bedroom, I don't have much of a response to that because my husband would never dream of dictating my apparel. First of all, he could care less what I wear; it's my body...and secondly, as I said, I'm pretty independent and probably wouldn't listen anyhow. :O 2. Why or why not. Well, I guess I kind of answered that one above... 3. No. Not only would he not HAVE a reason to be "mad", he wouldn't be. To me, it would show a great lack of respect for my personal choices, on his part. If you are asking this question in a realistic manner, no one has the right to "dictate" another’s choice of apparel. One should only marry and spend the rest of their lives with another with whom they are on the same page and that starts with mutual respect.

Ask yourself why you feel uncomfortable? As women we look at ourselves and see fat regardless of what our spouse says. He probably sees you as a beautiful woman that would just turn him on like mad to see you in a lingere piece. When you are lying down or on top....most of the icky stuff is out of the way anyway! lol meet him half way with it, dim the lights, set a mood.. Blind fold him...lol. I'm sorry for some of my remarks, but I've been in the same boat, and at the end of the.........."day" its all good, perhaps then you may feel like doing it again, or not. Just do it once to make him happy. Who knows you just might find you'll want a Victoria Secret Account at best. Good Luck!

whenever possible I put my husbands happiness ahead of mine..actually, not that often, but he doesn't ask for much, so if he really wanted me too, sure, I'd do it.

I would because if he asked me to wear it chances are I look damn good in it.

My spouse would never ask me to wear something that I hated or didn't want to wear. If he thought it was nice he might explain why he thought so but he would leave it for me to decide.

My husband would never have tried to make me wear something that I felt unhappy or uncomfortable wearing.. he would have preferred to buy me something that I liked and felt happy in. He certainly would not have got angry with me if he knew it was something i did not like

It depends on the situation, but I'm pretty sure he wouldn't ask me to wear anything that made me uncomfortable. I, on the other hand, have repeatedly asked him to play his guitar naked, which he refuses to do.

i would happily weat it for him, occasionally.....whats a bit of discomfort at the end of the day

no i wouldnt wear it. I feel comfortable in most anything so if I didnt it would have to be like walking outside in bondage...not really my thing, lol

I have a harder time getting her to accept some of the things that make me comfortable, but sometimes make her uncomfortable when I wear them, so your question isn't really an issue for me.

No, you're not a servant.

my spouse knows me well enough to know what makes me uncomfortable. We respect each other and would never ask the other to do something that he or she didn't like. This doesn't mean that we don't do fun and crazy things---it just means that there are limits to what we're comfortable with. good luck