Do you point out other peoples flaws to make yourself feel better?
by 
Chosun One
ANSWERS: 15
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No i don't, i think that what you have to do to make yourself feel better is fix your mistakes and try to be a better person for real not just pretend to be one.
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No way... that would be a really sh*t full thing to do !!
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At this point in my life, doing that would be ridiculously lame of me. I'd like to think that I've gained some maturity since 5th grade...
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I pretty much do the reverse. I'm comfortable enough with myself that I like making fun of myself to make somebody else feel better.
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no, i just try to improve the spelling on AB. God knows i have a lot of shortcomings that can't be canceled out by my good spelling.
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I don't now, but there was a time in my life that I wasn't so nice. Something what maturity does to a person.
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No, when I point them out, I consider it to be a help. I may not always do it in the most... sensitive way, but I guess I take it from the golden rule "Treat others as you would like to be treated". Do I mean to point things out and say "You're doing it wrong! Bad, bad, bad!"? No, but sometimes it does come out that way, I can admit. But personally, I like it when people tell me if I'm doing something "wrong" or tell me if there's a way I could do it better. For me, that's an opportunity to better myself, maybe gain some more knowledge, and move on. So I think of it that way when I point things out to other people- I want them to be able to do their best, even when it doesn't seem like it.
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no i dont.
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No I try never to point out things that would upset or embarrass a person. I feel it is cruelty for the sake of personal entertainment or self grandissement
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No. I have however done it a few times as a defense mechanism when others started to criticize me for my flaws.
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No. I learned a long time ago that such behavior ultimately makes you feel worse.
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No, and I feel really bad for people who do.
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I don't but people do it to me all the time and I wonder why they do that. Mostly about the flaws of my stuff and not me personally. That makes them feel better about their stuff?
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no but i know this bitchy girl who does. she only does it because she needs to feel that she is the hottest thing out there which she isn't. she won't be even remotely attractive soon from all of the tanning and hair-dying she does.
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Does that work? ;-)
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