Would you ever tell a friend/family member if you saw their significant other cheating?
by 
Bruja.
ANSWERS: 18
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i would tell them, because i would want them to tell me if the situation were reversed.
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Without a doubt. I'd even tell people I know casually, because nobody deserves to be betrayed like that.
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Not in a direct way
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Yes, I love my family and would never want them to be put in a situation of not finding out for a long time.
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I sure would...I don't think anyone who breaks their vows deserves to get away with it.
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I most definitely would. It would be painful to do though.
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Find out when, how and who then lead my friend to the targets so he or she would find it without me pointing it out.
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In a heart beat. I'd even get pictures just so they know I'm not lying. I'd also let the cheater know I saw them right then and there.
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Find out when, how and who then lead my friend to the targets so he or she would find it without me pointing it out.
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I wouldn't tell them as such but I would make sure that they were in a situation that made them find out for themselves. I wouldn't want to damage a relationship by making accusations like that, I've seen people to it before and the person has accused them of being a liar.
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Only if I had proof positive 100%. I would hate to make a mistake that would not only jeopardize the relationship but my friendship as well!
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I would tell them that I saw their wife/husband and get into a converstion that way. I don't know if I would exactly tell them that they were being unfaithfull unless I was positive. I would just casually bring it up. For all I know it could be their cousin visiting or something. That happened to me. One of my friends to my then boyfriend that I was cheating, when actually I was with my cousing looking at a new bar he was gonna buy.
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No. They likely wouldn't believe you and you'd lose two friends.
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I sure would! I think they need to know, then they can decide whether they want to stay with the cheater or not!
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Yes
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I would let the cheater know they tell or I tell. I would not let it go but would give them the option to be honest about it.
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I'd be careful about it--I'd want to be 100% positive that was actually what was going on. And even if I was sure, I would probably confront the significant other first, and try to talk them into coming clean to my friend about it. If they wouldn't, as painful as it would be, I'd have to tell the friend. I think they'd deserve to know, and I'd want them to do the same if the situation were reversed. They might or might not believe me--that's their choice--but I would feel far too guilty if I knew and didn't say anything.
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I will tell them not by words, but with my actions so that my friend will find it out the affair by themselves with their very own eyes and let them decide what the further steps they want to take.
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