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i totally back you up on this, i do not think for one second you are being ridiculous, and you are right if he had nothing to hide in seeing/speaking to her there would be no need for this new phone. i think you should ask him why he is talking to her and seeing her, not in an accusing sort of way, and maybe you can get to the bottom of why he feels he needs to communicate with her again.or, is he happy with your relationship/is there something you are lacking or maybe you need to communicate more? i would be suspicious of this, especially if there are no children involved
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You are not ridiculous. If he's using a separate cell phone and visiting his ex-wife without your knowledge, he probably ahs a reason to feel guilty. Actions speak volumes. You may want to let him know that total honesty is all you will accept in a relationship and he can make the choice to be up front with you or lose you. He can't commit to you fully while actively deceiving you.
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If you have the details right, I would have serious questions regarding the honesty of your boyfriend. You need to have a serious conversation, not argument, with your boyfriend about his feelings and his current relationship with his ex-wife.
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Perhaps he and his former wife couldn't get along but had some amazing sexual chemsitry. Maybe they are happier living apart and then just engaging in some hot, steamy monkey sex with each other because they know what the other one likes in bed. My advice is to find another boyfriend and let him carry on with his ex-wife without having to be sly and sneaky about it.
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OMG What a question! GET RID OF HIM!! Sounds like he's not being honest about something!
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In my honest opinion unless there are kids involved, he is banging her, and you should kick him to the curb and get you someone who is loyal.
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Well, it sounds like it might be time to end your relationship with him if you haven't already.
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