I would let him get on with it if he is happy playing the field and not wanting to get tied down to anyone then thats his choice,and when he is ready will probably settle down when the time is right for him.

You really have to leave him to it. I know you mean well but it's really none of your business. It sounds like he's just not ready to have a serious relationship at the moment - and trying to push him into that will result in more problems than if you just let him come around to it in his own time. If he's been married or in a long term relationship before he's probably just regaining his feet with women and wants to have a little fun and not dive straight into something serious. As long as he's not neglecting his parenting duties there is really nothing wrong with him choosing to stay single and have a few casual girlfriends now and then. Don't rush the guy into things or try to set him up - if you know someone you think he might like, by all means introduce them but don't push it - sooner or later he'll meet the right woman and things will get more serious, but for now, just leave him be. Concentrate on being his friend, and don't get too motherly! Remember this guy is still young and there's no time limit on when you have to settle down with one person. There's not even a requirement that you have to. People who are laid back about it and don't go out desperately looking to be in a "proper" relationship often end up with stronger relationships when they do have them because they are focused on the person, and not the relationship status - whereas people who go out thinking "I must find a partner" "I must get married." often forget to check whether the person they've latched onto is really right for them (or in this case, their family.) Give him time - plenty of people these days are well into their forties or fifties before they meet Mr or Mrs Right. No panic necessary.

proabaly nothing. he will wake up one day and be 45 with no wife or family and probably regret it. but at the moment i dont think he would listen if you tried to tell him that. men like to life for the now, you've just gotta be there as a friend. if he meets the right one he will settle...

Nothing I'm afraid. You can't make him have a certain type of relationship because you want him to. You should allow him to live his own life, I am sure that you would not appreciate it if he told you how to live your life. As long as the child/children are not in danger then there isn't anything that you can do.

He will figure it out in his own time... and hopefully his currant choices are not effecting his children.

i guess just leave him alone nd let him live his own life nobodys gonna be able to change him except himself.