ANSWERS: 4
  • Thats a tough one because people i have met in real life not online, you never really know them that well, but when i have met a couple of people online i have to chat with them quite regularly to suss them out, if there is something not quite right they will slip up with in that time of getting to know them, i do read between the lines and am quite intuitive and my gutt feeling will usually tell me, so sometimes a couple of months of regular chat then i'm ready to.
  • This is my first venture into this type of environment. I open myself up totally to people..some people "get" me and open themselves up to me totally as well..something just "clicks" at some point..so some of the people I've "met" on AB got to be "close friends" within a dozen or so exchanges..a few seemed to be heading in that direction, but fizzled out..that happens sometimes..with some people, the more you learn the more you want to learn..with some others, you get to a certain point and decide to back off..or they get to a certain point and then disappear. There are currently quite a few "friends" whom, the moment we met, I'd hug! I'm a really open, inclusive person and love meeting new people! I'm not at all cautious nor do I hold back..but I do pull back sometimes. :)
  • generaly after I spend or converse with someone three times I have a good Idea what they are like.
  • it will take a long while. Make sure there not a Sex offender or a Murderer. Investigate!

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