Its the oldest excuse in the book isen't it ? Sorry dear I was drunk. Its rubbish, I like a drink or three, and I have done some stupid things, but I did them, not the drink, I knew what I was doing.

It sounds to me like someone cheated while drunk... i was there just about a month ago. I think that your perception is off while your drunk but you wouldnt be getting drunk hanging around ppl that could suduce you if you were happy in your current relationship and also that even if it were a mistake and the person feels horrible after the fact... they still did the deed and it is wrong so they need to suffer the consequences. For me, I am still friends with him. We tried to work it out (and who knows what will happen in the future)... but we are not together now, we still live together for the meantime, and we are trying to work out maintaining a friendship. IF you are going through what i did last month, i know how hard it is. and I wish you all the best. Follow your heart and really think about how he/she makes you feel... you will make the right decision. good luck!

No, I have been extreamly drunk and know what i have done, but again i know my limit. I don't get to the point where i am puking and passing out. I think people use that as an excuse, i don't buy it for one moment. No one slipped a jimmy in your drink, and if you can't handle your liquor its still your fault, if your old enough to drink your old enough to handle the consequences.

no, never. man, have I scolded some people who used that crappy excuse..

I don't take drugs nor drink...but when I did drink I always knew exactly what I was doing. And I could always say 'no'.

Sweetie that is an awsome question. I don't drink. Haven't done so in nearly 25 years. Even when I did drink I never got that bad. However I believe that if one was that drunk it would still not be hard to control what one does if they really didn't want to do it. I think being drunk is a poor excuse people make up to justify their immoral or inconsiderate behavior. Unless you are passed out cold you have at least some idea of what is going on around you and it is not hard to push someone away if you don't want to make out with them or have sex with them or whatever. Anyone who thinks they can't control themselves is just looking for a cheap excuse to escape taking personal responsibility for their actions.

The only thing alcohol does is enhance a personality that is already present and slows down your reaction time. A cheater at heart find it easier to cheat when they are intoxicated.

When I'm drunk I'm very smart and intellectual. But, when I'm smashed, I am a lot of trouble.

when am drunk i do crazy things, but in that moment i want it, but what is feeling in other morning, that a different story

No.

When I am intoxicated...you dont wanna know.

No. When I DID drink, I might have done some dancing or singing that I wouldn't normally have done, :) but thing's I really did not want to do? No.

no i dont...and i dont buy it as an "excuse" for having no control over behaviour...i think thats a load of crap and an excuse people rely on so they dont have to take responsibility for their crummy behaviour.

No, that's an unjustified excuse that is used too much, unfortunately a lot of people buy it. Alcohol does not mess with your judgment or your ability to make decisions or choices. It alters your perception and slows down your reaction time, but you are still the same person drunk as you are sober...just a little more clumsy:) If I'm still able to decide what I want to eat when I'm drunk, then I'm pretty sure I can still decide if I want to makeout with someone or not! AWESOME question;)

It is possible to be very drunk and not know exactly what you are doing. It is called 'blacking out' and i did it quite a few times in college when I was an alcoholic binge drinker ; ) It is also a very good excuse if you are not drunk and bored with the person you are with.

Last week I was on a trip away with people I'd never met before. The minute I arrived I made so many great friends and clicked so well with them all. One night we all had a deep and meaningful about relationships where I admitted that I'm quite sheltered in that I've never even kissed someone that I didn't end up going out with, and I've never had sex before at least the second date. Unfortunately, despite knowing this, or maybe this was a challenge for him, one of the guys began to persue me. I had, however, fallen deeply for a different one, love at first sight kind of thing. We didn't want it to be just a one night away thing though so we took it slow, i.e. no sex. On the final night of the trip we all got drunk off our faces though and I blacked out. The next morning I woke up, naked, with the wrong guy. My friends had to tell me later what had happened. Apparently not only had I been kissing the one that I wanted and couldn't remember, but also, within five minutes of that I had moved along to the other guy, and ended up having sex with him. I feel sick, used, cheap, dirty and like a complete bitch. I've never done anything like that before and the guy I like now refuses to acknowledge that there was ever anything between us. My friends think that I may have been drugged, but I don't see who would have done anything like that. At the end of the day, I had been drinking an awful lot. I was too drunk to know what was going on, or remember what happened, but I did still have sex with someone that I did not want to be with. It does happen. And the cheater can feel just as crushed when it does.

More often than not, this is the thought process going on in drunk people: "I want to do something really stupid or repulsive, but I am afraid it will damage my reputation. Aha, if I'm drunk, I can just blame it on the booze. Time to make out with a 60 year old lady, YEAH!"

Yes. Drinking lowers one's inhibitions and willpower. Since it's a depressant, it will make you feel very passive and apathetic. The best thing you can do is avoid getting drunk if you think you'll regret your actions later.

lol no? of course not. and anyone who says otherwise is talking total bullshit. you still know exactly what you are doing when drunk. you ever see a drunk driver get pulled by the cops smiling? nope. they got thier head in their hands, they know what they done. i was seeing a girl who gave that fuckin lame excuse to me when she cheated on me with my friend, sad thing is, she really loved me, and i believe her, but i got rid of her anyway, there aint no excuse for cheating, especially not for being drunk