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  • Only during sex??? I dont know Id be leery of that... Nevertheless... it could be the only time your partner feel comfortable expressing themselves... Consider if you have to ask: "do you love me", and thats the only time.. now I would say thats a problem...But you're not gonna know based on when he says it.. but how he shows it.
  • Doesn't sound like it. To me ... you say it all the time. If it's just during sex, he loves the sex or you for letting him sex you! Sorry.
  • Who knows -- men usually have difficulty saying things like "I love you" -- but one thing is sure though, he loves having sex with you, and if he keeps coming back for more he might be hard to shake off.
  • I think he does. At least he says it then. I've known many women who say their boyfriend/husband NEVER say it. Most of the time, you can tell it in other ways. Does he work steady? Does he come home to you every night? Does he take you out or buy you things, just because? A lot of men have trouble expressing themselves, but if you can see it in other ways, I'd say you are okay. If not, then start worrying.
  • I would be wary...there could be something strange going on in his head..but dont dismiss him to quickly as he could just have emotional intimacy issues. Hope it turns out ok for you :o)
  • Maybe yes maybe no. He could have issues with telling you he loves you at all other times. He could also be a man who equates sex with love and when you are not having sex that is not love to him. I will say this if it bothers you all that much sit down with the guy and talk about how it makes you feel to only be told that he loves you when you are having sex. It's the only way you may know for sure if he loves you and just has issues expressing it or if he is just using you as a piece of meat.
  • I think his "Ilove you" during sex sounds more like a thank you. If he can say it during sex and doesn't say it any other time....I don't think he loves you.
  • From a guys point of view..........I would say the physical act a man enjoys is the ultimate for intimacy while a womans may be snuggling up to her man on a cold winters night. Don't let these different paths confuse the love that he feels for you.
  • HE DOESNT LOVE YOU HE LUST FOR YOU HE THINKS SHES GIVING ME SOMEHTING I WANT I'LL GIVE HER SOMETHING SHE WANTS(TO SAY I LOVE YOU). LUST AND LOVE ARE AT TWO ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM ALONG WITH INFATUATION. PEOPLE ALWAYS MISCONSTRUDE LOVE FOR ALOT OF THINGS. BOYS WILL SAY I LOVE YOU TO GET WHAT THEY WANT. BUT IFYOU'VE BEEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR A WHILE HE MAY JUST HAVE ISSUES WITH POURING HIS FEELINGS BUT IF THAT WAS THE CASE HE WOULDNT EVEN SAY IT WHILE SEX. YOUR CONFUSING INTAMACY WITHSEX AND SO IS HE. THE ACT OF SEX IS NOT TRU INTAMACY.I WOULD SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HIM IF I WAS YOU AND IF HE JUMPS WITH NO THOUGHT AND SAYS I LOVE BABE TO STOP THE CONVERSATION HE PROBABLY DEOSNT REALLY LOVE YOU. BUT DONT HOLD SO MUCH INTHE WORD. HOW DOES HE TREAT YOU ALL THE TIME NOT JUST DURING SEX OR WHEN THE PROSPECTS HAVEING SEX COME UP. BE OBSERVANT AND PAY ATTENTION. LEARN TO READ PEOPLE THEY TELL YOU MORE WITH THERE ACTIONS THANWITH THERE WORDS.
  • It sounds to me like he only loves you when you're having sex...
  • Only if he says it when your not having sex.
  • In my opinion, no. He thinks its love, but its not.
  • he may or may not. but ill tell you this, him saying it during sex doesn't mean anything in regards to whether or not he actually loves you. i used to have a gf that would make me say "i love you" during sex knowing full well i wasn't in love with her and she wasn't in love with me. it just helped her enjoy it more and its the same for some guys.
  • With hold sex. You'll find out just how truthful his words are.
  • Yes, he loves having sex with you.....
  • Hubby first told me he loved me when we were in bed.

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